Experienced: But You Have A Big Heart ❤️

This is so true. My wife is usually not in the mood for sex when she gets home from a date, especially if she has just had sex with her date. First off, she's not a nymphomaniac so there is a limit to how many times she wants to have sex in a day. Also, when she gets home she almost always wants to talk and reconnect with me emotionally more than physically. I should also point out that she started cuckolding me on a regular basis during a time when I was traveling a lot for work so "reclaiming sex" was never really an option in much of the time. If I were on a business trip when she went on a date she would call me at my hotel once she got home from her date and tell me about what they did. If I was home she would want me to just sit and listen to her tell me all about her date.

I dread hearing this but it is understandable

Your wife of 20 years looked radiant as she walked out the door for her first date with another man since you asked her to marry you.