Who else enjoys watching their wife?
There is a small part of you that wishes she would be spending that special night with you, but she's been cuckolding you for years now, so you're not at all surprised that she would choose that spend that night with her boyfriend.
Sharing your wife with other men is a very common fantasy. Some want to keep it a fantasy and some want to make it a reality. I guess most of the men wanting to make it a reality haven’t been able to tell their wife, for one reason or another. Others have shared their fantasy but the wife wasn’t into it. Those who are lucky enough to both be able to share the fantasy with the wife and her being into the idea, will then be faced with the fact that reality isn’t always the same thing as fantasy.
So what’s the main difference? Well, obviously that in your fantasy, you dictate everything that happens. In reality you don’t. This means that things you never thought about, can and will happen.
I believe this is mainly a positive thing. I’m 100 % sure that my hubby wasn’t aware of how much he liked be teased/humiliated, how far we could take this and how turned on he could get by us stretching our limits. Accordingly, fantasy can be limiting but reality can take you across such limits... if you let go and enjoy the ride.