It Started When Your Wife Mentioned -- As If It Was No Big Deal At All -- That She Was Meeting A Friend

It started when your wife mentioned -- as if it was no big deal at all -- that she was meeting a friend from her gym for coffee. That was a little over a year ago. You didn't even know the friend was another man. The coffee meetings turned into going out to lunch get togethers, which was when a friend of yours mentioned seeing her at a restaurant at lunch with another man. That got you upset, so you confronted her -- but she assured you it was no big deal, and she also told you it was really none of your business who she met for lunch.

A month after that, she went with him as his date to a party of a friend of his -- and she spent the night with him. And since then she has spent more and more time with him, and however hurt you have felt, your wife seems not to care about that at all.