They had been watching each other all evening at her office party. Then when I came back with fresh drinks he was at our table talking with her. Sitting in my seat. They left right away and spent a long time on the dance floor to some slow romantic songs.
I went and brought another chair. I never did reclaim mine but sat a few seats away at our table. They occasionally looked over at me and smiled. As the evening was ending I brought her coat when she hit me with the question. I must have pondered too long or she noticed the little tent in my slacks. My wife cocked her head to the side and smiled. She took his arm and I watched them walk away and out the door together.
With you, your wife had never been sexually adventurous at all. In fact, she had never seemed that interested in sex -- until you told her about your cuckolding fantasies. THAT was an idea she really resonated to! It has pained you terribly as you've learned about all the things she does with him that she would never do with you -- but most painful of all has been her recent decision to stop having sex with you completely. She said at first that it was her boyfriend's idea -- but then laughingly admitted it was what she wanted just as much.
Been there several times.