And The Truth Is, Your Wife Hardly Ever Does ANYTHING Sexual With You Anymore At All.

Husbands if you have this fantasy but haven’t told your wife yet, tell her but be careful.

My recommendations:

1. Get her to admit about a celebrity crush she has.

2. If she admits to a celebrity crush, when time feels right, tell her she has a hall pass with her crush should she ever get the chance

3. Have her call you her crush’s name when having sex.

4. The next step is to tell her you have fantasized about her having sex with another guy. Be careful here, she still may not understand your fantasy. Ensure her it’s just a fantasy and that you love her. Don’t push the issue, give her time to process this. Eventually she’ll have questions for you.

5. You’ve just opened the door to a whole lot of fun and a completely new sex life with your wife.

When we first started this journey, I wasn’t able to completely enjoy a date or a moment with another man. I do enjoy meeting new men and the fun that comes along with it but I always felt that I was only doing it for my husband.

Don’t get me wrong, not that doing it was bad, I couldn’t just let go and be in the moment. I guess there was always some apprehension hidden somewhere.

I know that my husband loves me unconditionally and I love him back with the same complete absoluteness. However it wasn’t until I was able to love and trust myself with that same absolute certainty that I could fully enjoy this gift that my husband had given me. He constantly reminds me, “It’s ok to let go, don’t worry because I’ll never let you fall.” For me, that was scary, to just let go and enjoy this just for myself. Honestly I didn’t know how to do it. The love and trust it takes to allow this and also to accept this can only be described as skydiving, jumping out of a plane knowing your husband packed your chute. A leap of faith. And when I land, he’s always there with open arms, encouraging me, accepting me, loving me. You keep packing and I’ll keep jumping.