Still feeling very awkward and unsure about the situation, you quietly get up and walk downstairs to the basement guest room to spend the night. You're not even sure that your wife and your friend are even aware that left.
The precise moment your marriage changed forever.
He really likes the passion and intensity of it.
"I'm sure it would be pretty painful for you if you saw all of that -- so I think you should go back home before he gets here. We can talk more when I get home in a few hours -- or if I end up spending the night with him, we can chat when I get home in the morning. Go now -- staying would be foolish, and I guarantee that if you stay, I'm still going to have my time with him and there is nothing you can say or do to stop it. So why create a really awkward and difficult situation for yourself. Go home."