She had never discussed any of these new life choices with you, but instead simply started doing them. But even your kids have noticed the changes she's made and are quite impressed with how good she looks and all three of your girls think it's really cool, and impressive, that she now has a younger boyfriend.
My wife asked me this on a Friday night as we were getting ready to go out. She smiled nervously after asking. I said Yes. She asked again and I said Yes a 2nd time. She asked a 3rd time and was still nervous but I could tell she wanted to tell me. I didn’t know who she was going to say but whoever she says, I know she is serious. Finally, she looked down, bit her lip and said Ryan. Ryan was her boyfriend before we started dating. She looked up at me nervously and said “he wanted to fuck me when we dated and I turned him down, if I could go back I definitely would have fucked him.
If I tried to control my wife now, she would probably make it a point to do something I told her she can’t