Daveandyourwife - Untitled

When you first urged your wife to cuckold you, it had never occurred to you that she would so quickly and enthusiastically agree -- and that she would do it with someone you know, much less your best friend. But you know he has always really liked her, and he's said a few times how much he would love to have the chance to try to steal her from you. You always just laughed when he has said that, thinking he was just joking. But it now appears he meant it.

There are thousands of men out there with the same fantasy, they want a hotwife that sleeps with other men. They may have different tastes on how that goes, maybe friends, strangers, bbc, male escorts, bosses, younger men, etc, but the concept of the wife or gf being a slut for someone else is one of the most common fantasies out there. And there is a reason that it remains a common fantasy and not a common reality.

The reason is there is a barrier to overcome. The barrier is the question. And the question is more nerve wrecking than proposing marriage. The question is if she would be willing to sleep with other men. Most men cannot bring out the topic sensibly, and those that do are shut down more often than not. So that is what we will cover today.

I cannot stress the importance of being able to communicate the hotwife fantasy to the most important element, the wife. Most men I talk to never bring it up. So that on its own lower the probability of making it happen, unless she brings it up someday. But unless she is extremely open minded, it is not likely.

So the first step and hardest, is confessing. There is no way around it, it must be done if you want a hotwife. When doing this, you must make sure you are clear that it is a fantasy that you would like to play with and make reality in some way. There should not be any mixed signals here, you must be clear and determined. Not bossy, not demanding, clear, straight, and open minded. The next step is being ready for her counter, when she asks you why. Once again, you must be clear, straight, open minded, and most of all, finding the common benefit. Meaning that you believe it would be fun for both of you, a turn on for both of you, pleasurable for both of you, a stronger bond for both of you, etc. At this point, she may be experiencing a bombardment of logical argument mixed with feelings. Remember the feelings part, this are the most important.

She will either shut you down or have a lot of questions. If she shuts you down, do not be pushy. Give her a few days to absorb it then approach the topic in a civilized manner. If she has questions, answer them civilly and assure her you love her, are not jealous, will only go as far as it benefits both of you, no further than she is comfortable, etc. I cannot stress this enough, this is not about you, it is about both of you, so do not be pushy.

Now assuming you got to a point to where she is asking how you picture that would go through, do not blurt out you want her to be a gangbang slut. That may be your ultimate goal, but what you are really aiming for at this point is to get the idea into her mind and assure her you could try things slowly, and see if it would ever buildup to any actual sex. I will cover more on buildup ideas in another post.

So unless she gave you a straight yes already, make sure you are calm when you tell her it has been a fantasy of yours and you just felt it was right for you to confess to her. Assure her you love her with or without her being a hotwife. Then thank her for being patient and listening, tell her she is beautiful, you love her, and you can talk about it some other time in the future more calmly.

That should be a good start to get the ball rolling in the right direction. It is important to approach this not expecting her to accept right away. Approach it as if you are informing her of something on your mind a lot, and not as if you are expecting anything. Give her time to absorb it all, and treat her with love after all of that. Give it a few days and do not mention anything about it unless she brings it up.

Hopefully this helps some of you who have been on the fence about how to approach this. I will continue posting more stuff regarding transforming a wife into a hotwife in the future.

Thanks for the pic submission!