My take might be much different from yours since I wanted my wife to date, to have a boyfriend and to have a lover and possibly have a new husband. The guy who can give her everything and treat her like the princess she is.
To know she will never be mine again. To know he enjoys her every night and that she will be having wild sex with him is still thrilling to me.
SORRY 💦💦💦
This is based on a true story. He did call and they ended up being friends and doing coffee a few times. They never became lovers though because he was not comfortable being with a married woman and he also had a girlfriend and wasn't ready to cheat on her. However, it still turns me on that younger men are attracted to my wife and that my wife was ready and willing to take it further.
"My husband? He's not coming back. He left us alone so you could make your move."