This happened many years ago when the kids were little and we were on vacation in Mexico. We were staying at a resort on the beach and it happened that the room next door was occupied by 3 young men that had just graduated from college. At first I was worried they would be the loud party animal types, but was relieved that they did their partying at the bars and kept it quiet in the room. They were great with the kids and would play with them on the beach in the afternoons and they were always respectful to my wife. However, it seemed that one of them had a bit of a crush on my wife and of course I teased my wife about this a bit. One evening my wife and I were relaxing on beach watching the sun set while the kids played in the sand. Soon the guy that seemed to have a crush on my wife joined us. He said the other two guys went off to the bars again, but he wasn’t in the mood. So the three of us talked and drank while the kids played in the sand. Eventually, it got time to put the kids to bed so I told my wife I’d do it and for her to just relax. I took my time and read lots of stories to the kids till they finally fell asleep. Then instead of going back outside to the beach I just laid down on the couch and pretended to fall asleep. When I didn't come back to the beach my wife said she suspected I was deliberately leaving them alone hoping something would happen. Nothing did happen, but we talked about "what if" which led the two of us to have some pretty heated sex that night.
He provides for your wife in ways that you can't. She needs at least one weekend a month with him.