Daveandyourwife - Untitled

When we first started this journey, I wasn’t able to completely enjoy a date or a moment with another man. I do enjoy meeting new men and the fun that comes along with it but I always felt that I was only doing it for my husband.

Don’t get me wrong, not that doing it was bad, I couldn’t just let go and be in the moment. I guess there was always some apprehension hidden somewhere.

I know that my husband loves me unconditionally and I love him back with the same complete absoluteness. However it wasn’t until I was able to love and trust myself with that same absolute certainty that I could fully enjoy this gift that my husband had given me. He constantly reminds me, “It’s ok to let go, don’t worry because I’ll never let you fall.” For me, that was scary, to just let go and enjoy this just for myself. Honestly I didn’t know how to do it. The love and trust it takes to allow this and also to accept this can only be described as skydiving, jumping out of a plane knowing your husband packed your chute. A leap of faith. And when I land, he’s always there with open arms, encouraging me, accepting me, loving me. You keep packing and I’ll keep jumping.

You and your wife and your best friend have been talking about this evening for months. It all started with some seemingly innocent joking and banter by him about how much he'd love to spend a night with you wife -- but what started as joking around has now become the real thing and it is hard to say who is most eager for their desires for each other and for your cuckold desires to be consummated.