Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

What would your perfect boi look/act like if you got him home?

Hmmmmm… He’d be sweet and nervous but eager and obedient and devoted and desperate to please. He’d be funny and good with banter but easy to fluster and affect. He’d have a pretty mouth and soft, grabbable hair and a responsive body that he’d turn over to me completely. He’d be communicative and engaged and able to have/hold his own boundaries. My perfect boy would be imperfect (as am I!), but he’d work to be good and he’d want to be mine.

Source: Rachel Adams Fantasies

@greeny1969 asked:

Do you get to the stage where you have no interest in having a release , or do you still crave the pleasure of it ?

(another question from the comments)

Tom here.

I'm assuming that by "release" you mean "orgasm," and it's a good question. The situation is that @mrs--edge and I have a "date" about once a week. I really enjoy the feeling of being aroused leading up to it, and naturally I'm very excited during it. After she is finished and satisfied, I'm still excited, but it tapers off to a more normal feeling of arousal after an hour or so.

About once a month my wife likes to make me come in my cage, because it makes her feel good about herself, which adds to our intimacy. Sometimes she drags it out for two months, and recently she made me go for three.

The thing is, I have learned to really enjoy surfing on that ebb and flow of arousal and excitement, and the longer I go on, the more that I (sometimes) don't want to spoil it with an orgasm. This leads to some games where I try to hold back and she tries to make me (she usually wins). But sometimes she will get me close and then ask if I want to. And of course, I both want to and don't want to at the same time (and she knows this). Usually I tell her that I want her to decide (she usually, but not always denies me when it's her decision) which is hot.

For as many years as we've been doing this, I'm always aroused and excited, and I always want and don't want a release. 😉

Breaking His Ego!

It may sound cruel, but it's really not. It's necessary.

In order to shift to serving her, the way she wants him to serve her, all of his resistance to her authority must be removed.

Every time he has resistance, hesitation, or questions her, this is his ego rearing up and interrupting the flow of power exchange.

It's a deterrent to her truly feeling the fullness of her authority. His ego must be broken if he truly wishes to become hers.

Every woman is different, which means, this process needs to occur, even if he's been trained in the past.

It's a deeply psychological process, in which he learns to let go of any control, and develop and complete level of trust in her.

It's beyond his control if he's to be hers, this process must happen. It usually ends in tears, especially the first time, as he lets go of all his illusion of how his service is meant to be, and adapts to her version only.

When he cries, it's tears of surrender, of recognition, that he belongs to her now.

All his fantasies are left behind, and are only entertained if she decides to entertain them.

Otherwise it's pure service to her.

She gets to explore and direct the relationship, where she wants it to go, her way, and with no male ego to stop her, but rather, a male that 100% supports her.

No more hesitations or topping from the bottom. No more subtle hints of his " ulterior motives" for rewards for submission.

Submission is the reward.

Once his ego is broken, she will feel completely different, and completely in charge.

She will cherish him from that point forward.

She will recognize the value in his submission. She will understand that he needs her loving authority, to fulfill his purpose of serving her as her loyal and dedicated slave.

It's a stronger bond than marriage.

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