I took it away for your own good! we don't need you spraying all over me or the floor now go get the strapon...
by the way, if you have a pretty boy all stretched out on your bed, whimpering and begging, leaking and hips flexing, clenching on your fingers with tears in his gorgeous eyes, don’t forget to grab his face until his cheeks are squished together and ask him „what do we say?“, because he’ll say „thank you“ all muffled and then you can ask „and what else?“ and he’ll say „i love you“ but it won’t come out right, so you can ask him “what was that? i couldn’t understand you” again and again in a condescending voice, while stroking his prostate, until the tears are flowing down his face and he’s withering and panting and muffled moans fill the room and when you finally let his face go, he’ll gasp and hiccup and stumble over himself to get the words out, almost yelling “i love you” and you can smile at him and call him a good boy as he babbles in between crying “i love you. i love you. thank you. i love you. please. please. please. i love you. i’m yours. please don’t stop. please. i love you. please” and then you can shush him and stroke his hair, while pressing a kiss to his forehead and whispering to him “don’t worry, baby. we’re just getting started. I’ll take care of you. you’re safe with me.” so yeah, i would totally recommend grabbing boys faces. they usually quiet like it.
shoving my fingers down a boy’s throat and making him gag. massaging his tongue… exploring the heat of his mouth…. much to think about.
Assertive Young Ladies #97
So after many many years, and literally $1000s spent on hypnosis/sex therapy/experimentation/research in trying to become a premature ejaculator here is my best technique.
Sadly there is no magic pill to become a Premature Ejaculator (at least not reliably!), here’s my best researched two-step technique of becoming a Premature Ejaculator:
Phase 1. Medium-term Gooning - ‘simulated PE’
The first stage takes lots of will power. If you have a chronic masturbation/gooning habit you may have noticed that the longer you goon, the sooner it is before you reach edge.
So initially you will be focusing on re-wiring your triggers and habbits. If you manage not to cum for several days you will find yourself starting to edge sooner and sooner, maybe you start feeling the ability to cum after a couple of minutes. If you keep going it’ll get shorter and shorter. Judge your progress, after 5 or so days you should be down to a consistent 20-30 seconds of jerking before you HAVE TO STOP.
Unfortunately this feeling is only temporary, if you ejaculate now then you will go back to being able to last.
This first phase will feel extremely frustrating! You MUST NOT cum! Despite how much your body cries out. You must focus all your willpower, your desire to become a permanent premature ejaculator must outweigh the pleasure you feel when cumming.
Keep jerking off, edging, stopping, jerking off, edging, stopping! Get up to one whole week of this!
Your mind will be a mix of emotions, I’m sorry to say you may find yourself not enjoying masturbation because of how little of it you can do without having to stop (BTW, this is what a permanent premature ejaculator feels like), yet you will be horny all the time.
When you start to feel these feelings (but no sooner than one week) stop, and continue to phase 2.
Phase 2. Conventional Ejaculation
Your first day of phase 2 will be spent without touching your dick at all. However, at this stage you’ll be well acquainted (or reacquainted) with what turns you on the most, spend the first day of phase 2 with this porn. Let it become a part of you, let it turn you on so much. But do not stroke your dick. Jerking off today is as unobtainable as the tits or pussies you see on your screen.
The next day you will start phase 2 proper. Your task will be to bring up your favorite porn, start jerking, and cum as soon as you feel the need:
Because you have at least seven whole edging days of cum built up you will be so ready to explode, you will cum so easily, HOWEVER, you MUST CUM AS SOON AS YOU FEEL READY! DO NOT HOLD OFF You must experiment relaxing the muscles above and around your penis, it’s the same muscle set you relax when taking a pee, so try that. Feel what that feels like, remember which muscles you relaxed. If you want to extend your jerk-off session you may look at porn without touching your dick, but from the moment you touch your dick you must not stop jerking till you cum.
Let your cum explode, and enjoy your release.
Then put your penis away. You’ve had your fun. No matter how horny you are you must not jerk off again this day.
The next day, browse your favorite porn without touching your dick. When you’re ready to cum, grab your dick, and while stroking try to relax the same muscles as yesterday…. You will find that when you’re ready to cum it will just happen, it may even take you by surprise! Remember how easy it was yesterday? Well today it was almost as easy!
This will be your life for the next two weeks. You must not jerk off unless you’re ready and willing to cum in the next few minutes, and when you’ve cum that must be the end for the day. While you’re jerking you must relax your muscles.
Over the 14 days you will notice the time taken to cum and your ability to resist cumming will reduce. Perhaps you can record your timings, make a graph of it, chart your descent.
What we are doing is causing your ejaculatory muscles to dystrophy. We are physically reducing your ability to hold back. It will take at least two weeks of this behavior for long-term effects to materialize, but it will be worth it in the end.
Welcome to the Premature Ejaculator club. Just be sure you want to be here, getting in in your control, but getting out is a billion dollar industry ;-)
This one hits pretty close to home for me. When my wife installed monitoring cameras in the house, she didn’t tell me about them at first. That’s how she caught me trying on her things and masturbating with her sweaters. Then she sat me down for a talk, explained that she knew everything and that things were going to be different from then on- she’d be watching me, checking the recordings and administering punishment if I didn’t adhere to her new rules. I was so ashamed and humiliated that of course I agreed to her terms, and now she’s much happier knowing her control over me is secure. It was hard for me at first, but I’ve come to appreciate her confident leadership, her strength and her firmness with me. Being a weak beta, it’s what I really need, and being an alpha woman, it’s just how things ought to be. For the first time, we both feel right in our relationship, in each of our proper roles. It may not be for everyone, but for us, FLR is heaven.
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