"Um, Excuuuse Me?

Hello I'm Derek a 50 year old submissive and I'm getting married and we both are new to this lifestyle of FLR and she wants to control my masturbation problem and we can't find a chastity that works for me the mainstream ball trap devices doesn't work for me what's your advice on a truly inescapable chastity sir

Hello Derek. Feel free to message me privately if you like. I wear a piercing secured MaleChastityNow (MCN) device. We found a piercing shop at the Association of Professional Piercers website, and read through Elayne Angel’s The Piercing Bible website and book.

I was pierced in 2014 with an 10ga needle and immediately stretched to 8ga. I healed in 8ga jewelry and stretched to 4ga. The thicker jewelry feels better. I was too shy to say I’m using it for chastity, but I did say I wanted to stretch to heavier gauges, so the piercer set it further back.

If you like ball-traps but find them too easy to pull out, get a Contender. @female-led-couple has an active OnlyFans as well as some content here. She got him pierced and fitted in a Contender.

Small changes in base ring diameter and angle can make a big difference in comfort.

If you want a shaft-only device, get a GlansArmor2. That’s what I’ve been wearing most often.

This year there’s a “no piercing” option: it’s a glans-ring which traps you inside. That way you don’t need to be pierced. But I like my piercing, the commitment it represented to my wife, and the safe healthy method for security.

Mark at MCN uses 316 stainless steel and gives it a jewelry grade polish. He also uses narrower cage rods, which make for a lighter device. It’s about 56% lighter than his competitors.

As of 2020, he started offering a proprietary keyed fastener. The screws are custom made for his company, and are the best quality and security. The PA mount has the screw countersunk. There’s no way to loosen it without the keyed bit, and a driver to get some torque. The MCN Lock System is very secure.

I’ve worn MaleChastityNow cages for 13 weeks straight without removal, and for over 180 weeks so far. I have bought dozens of other devices. But I’m in my “dream home” now.

Good luck on your journey. Share it with your wife. Try to let her lead. Play safe and sane.

All the best to you both.

Still working on the video  😭 Have another comic, I had fun with this one! <3 As always you can support my work using the ways below!

This is one of the latest batch from Barscubed. The one I really want to post shows a Lady peeing in a male's mouth, but on past experience, Tumblr won't let me post it publically. Please take a look on Deviant Art.

Apart from the last paragraph, much of the above could be taken from my relationship with Mistress N. She often chooses for me in restaurants and she is the sole wage-earner, though I have my own income and I am not financially dependent on her. She does have more income and capital than I do, however; and she owns a slave.

If you saw her earlier post, you will know that she has messaged me today. She has decided to repeat a device she implemented before when I was alone and she was with her boyfriend (before he was officially that): hourly performance of my worship ritual until she releases me by text.

I'm actually very happy to do it. It raises my spirits to know what she is thinking of me while she is with him. Of course, she no doubt also wishes me to think of her being with him and compare my day with theirs; to make me feel the wide gulf between us and her ownership of me.

That's okay. I know it. I want to feel it. I am grateful for her consideration.

make a boy call you daddy while he gags on your strap

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This post was written as a collaborative work of @oh-hi-welcome-to-my-soft-side and @sweetboynolan . Enjoy!

New Mommy, DMD - Part 1

"What are my goggles for? You've got so many questions after I turned the happy gas on! Not so shy now, are you? Ok, open wide so I can get my fingers in there. Mmm. I seeee. You must have a very good Mommy, because I don't see one cavity in here. Alright, let me check your tongue way back in here... Oh! Was that moan for me? Naughty baby! I've had little boys mistake me for their mommy in the grocery store before, but I don't think you get that excuse here. Now, close your mouth and I'll test some muscular strength. Ok, suck on them, please."

*Pssssssssssssrrrrrrrrr*

"What's that sou...? Oh my goodness! Did my widdle patient get excited from my feengurs? Well it's a good thing your mommy had you diapered. It's ok, this isn't the first time its happened. That's why we keep the masks on, some big babies let go of a lot more."

"Oh, right, you asked me a question. My goggles are for keeping your little squirties away from my pretty eye makeup when you get your good patient reward. You see, I wanted to look extra pretty when I checked my schedule and saw you were coming in today. Awww, I saw how wide your eyes got, and that bump your pee pee made in your soggy diapee too; you think I'm trying to impress YOU! What a sweet, silly, baby boy! No no no. Once I finish taking care of your teeth, I'm going to see if your pretty Mommy wants to get dinner with me. Wouldn't that be fun? With me dating your Mommy we could play dentist all the time, and, sometimes, I might even give you a dose of the happy gas when we strap you to your diapee changie table! Oh! Shhhh, no need to fuss Baby. Here, let me turn the gas a little higher. There, now, let's see how much you like being a mommy's boy. Lets get these tapes off. There we go, it's ok Cutie, just relax, I'm a pro. Let me just warm up the lotion, and a spare diapee. I've given out lots of good patient prizes on this chair, but I'll make this one extra nice.

The wheelchair was more of a carriage, but Mommy's face lit up when he was wheeled out of the working area. Her heels clicking as she meet the dentist halfway down the hall.

"Here you are Miss Tori, one very good patient, all clean and changed, and not a single cavity to be worried about! Looks like he needed a nap after such a big day, but I'm happy he's not fussing, because... well... Oh! No, reception will handle payment... No, no, I was really... err ahmmmm... do you... do you like Italian food?"

You can’t push it out. The first open mouth/ring gag with an integrated tongue depressor was designed to hold this black beauty in such a way that it cannot be pushed out with the tongue alone. Looking forward to finishing the next design step.

You like watching him fuck me don’t you Babe - are you going to lick my dirty pussy when he’s done? 🤤