At Her Whim

At Her Whim

It can come as a shock to many submissive men entering into a FLR, when they have to surrender all their own ideas of what submission is. There comes a point where her command and dominance, is all too real, and this can cause some nervousness, anxiety, and even the desire to retreat and pull away.

Unfortunately, these fears often win, and she never truly gets to experience his surrender to her. It takes a lot of strength to truly let go, and truly submit to her. Her version of dominance is not likely to match his version of submission to her. He must learn to bend and adapt to her way.

His sex life is no longer his own, he doesn't get any privacy in this regard, it's over. His sex life is forever determined by her. Every orgasm will be memorable, because it is initiated by her, and her alone. All pleasure he receives is meant to be throughly enjoyed, because she's allowing it. He doesn't get to control whether or not he gets a full release, or a ruined orgasm.... He should be thankful to even be allowed an erection and out of chastity. He can always cum in his cage by being milked with zero pleasure at all.

His pleasure is entirely hers to enjoy and dole out as she pleases, and it's never required. It's an act of kindness on her end. It doesn't even have to be simply because he was a good obedient boy, it doesn't have to be a reward. It can simply be because she wanted to play with him. He gets no say in it. Ever.

His pleasure is forever surrendered to her, that's the sacrifice of being her submissive. He gets exactly what she allows him to have, and she isn't obligated to allow him anything. He never knows what she will do, that's what his sex life has become.... Entirely hers to play with and own.

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