Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

Sometimes you got to remind your horny boy toy how to be patient.

Threats Make Brats Wet

Threats make the tummies of naughty brats flutter. Erotic threats are magic words that rattle the mind and set intimate places tingling.

An expert disciplinarian understands the psychology of subtle threats. In healthy kinky relationships, threats are not acts of intimidation, but a way to reciprocate when one partner wants attention and acts up to get it.

The most extreme kind of response is physical discipline, but if that was the only way a disciplinarian could respond, they'd be no fun to play with at all. There'd be no ambiguity, so sense of dancing close to the tripwire. No way to enjoy the erotic tension of pushing boundaries and wondering if you've gone too far.

If any provocation was immediately and invariably followed by a spanking, there'd be little space for the emotional and psychological enjoyment or discipline - and that would be no fun at all.

So, good disciplinarians enjoy a more subtle, progressive approach. When misbehaviour is noticed, it's far better that the consequences are foreshadowed. Think of this as a stairway with four steps.

The first step is the Verbal Warning. The disciplinarian recognises their charge's attempt to grab their attention, and cautions them that kind of behaviour will earn them a sore bottom. The threat is left hanging in the air.

The second step is Foreshadowing - where the brat is made to imagine the consequences of continued misbehaviour. They might be told: "You're choosing not to listen, and I'm losing patience. What happens when I lose patience?" And the brat will be made to explain in detail what the consequences of naughtiness really are. But still, their bum remains unsmacked.

The third step is The Brink. The brat will be sent to fetch the implement that will be used to spank them. They might be made to take off and hand over their panties, or change into a customary spanking outfit, like their pyjamas.

There might be a physical demonstration, with the spanking implement smacked against the spanker's palm, swished through the air, or whacked against a cushion. This theatrical performance should leave the naughty one in no doubt what's in store, but it need not automatically be followed by a spanking. Just like orgasms and edging, it's more effective to leave them teetering on the brink, buzzing with anticipation.

The final stage is, of course, the spanking itself. But this doesn't need to occur immediately. It might happen in a few hours, or at bedtime, or tomorrow, or whenever the recipient is least expecting it.

Remember what makes threats erotic and arousing is their inherent unpredictability. A brat should never truly know how close they are to a sore bottom - that's for their disciplinarian to decide. Threats make brats wet, and the best spankings come as a shocking surprise.

(originally @domina-valeer)

oh pretty boy, i dont even need to tie you up do i? all i have to do is say "hold your arms there and dont fucking move" and you listen so good. you wouldnt disobey me, hm? youre my good boy.

The following captioned images come from an idea I had for an S&M story set in a totalitarian regime, run by female supremacists. In this world, all males are required to perform a daily act of penance because there is a debt of suffering to be repaid to atone for the vile ways in which men have abused women over the centuries before the revolution.

The most popular method of penance is to have the male crouch, in a stress position, or kneel on a metal grid for at least an hour everyday and for the act of penance to count, it must be supervised by a woman, to ensure the male is suitably contrite and uncomfortable.

The few boys who are deemed worthy of education undergo penance assemblies; where a teacher, or a senior female pupil will lecture them on how vile and depraved men are, and how suffering is a means of atonement for the crimes of their forefathers.

Males who are employed in offices are also expected to perform daily penance under the supervision of female colleagues and managers, and some companies make males spend their break times doing penance because it is better for productivity.

Assertive Young Ladies #3

Heels, chains and buckles. Madam certainly knew how to spoil you. Now drop those sissy panties and let her grind that heel into your tiny, caged cock.

Don’t forget to thank her either.