Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

by the way a very hot guy, with perfectly lick-able abs wrote me a poem yesterday and my standards are forever in ruins

Slaps and Kisses

This is one of the rituals that we perform in private to ensure our relationship remains unequal. Sure, slapping a submissive across the face is nothing new, but with us, there is a deeper meaning to it.

I don’t need to slap him hard, as it’s not the physical pain that counts, rather it’s the feeling of power and control I get when slapping his face, and the humility it forces upon him. A gentle backhand with only the flick of my wrist is sufficient. If I am wearing my leather gloves, I will remove one and lightly slap him with it.

When I slap him, I am conveying the message “I own you and can do whatever I damn well please to you”, and for a few months, I actually said the words out loud to him each time to drive that meaning into him with repetition. Now when I slap him, I don’t say it anymore, but in his mind, he hears the message loud and clear.

After slapping him, I hold my hand out to him. His part of the ritual is to feel the humiliation from the slap, and submit. To show his submission, he kisses the hand that slapped him conveying the message “ Yes Ma'am, you own me and I surrender to your control”. When I said my part out loud, he answered me out loud.

When I first created this ritual, I would slap him at random a few times a day just to remind both of us our roles and places in this relationship. It worked great and have expanded on it since.

When we first started, he would take my hand in his while kissing it, but now I have him clasp his wrists behind his back and hold them there instead as it’s a much more submissive and vulnerable pose. He must maintain eye contact with me while kissing the hand that beats him.

Every so often, I may feel that I don’t see enough submission in his eyes and slap him again. If I slap him a second time, he has to get down and kiss my bare feet, or lick the patent leather ballet slippers I tend to wear around the house, as they are comfortable and perfect for licking.

I now use it to control his speech as well. If he says something I find offensive, or is just boring me with what he is saying, a quick backhand across the face shuts him up immediately and he kisses my hand and remains silent until I allow him to speak again.

So, in summation, the ritual is quick, efficient, and gets the point across. I feel powerful as he experiences humility which helps to maintain the inequality we both feel is important in our female-led relationship.

4/2/21

Master took another word from me this morning, and he has given me permission to use the word in this post.

He took away the word yep.  This has been much harder then the last four he took, and he knew that going into this.  There have been a number of times I had to edit my text before I sent it cus the word yep was in it… 

But I did use it twice on accedent.  The first time I noticed immediatly and tried to fix it, and in lue of punishment he gave me this writting assinment on why he took the word yep away.  The second one I didnt cetch for a bit, and he had to tell me.  Not sure if this punishment will cover both, but given it was assigned as punishment after the first and before the second… only if hes feeling generous…

Part of the problem going into this is I HAVE NO CLUE why he took the word away so all of this is my own ideas and may or may not be why he ACTUALLY took the word away.  I think he likes me confused tho… he said I dont need to understand why, and I just have to obey as best I can. So here it goes:

I think Master realized that the other four words would be fairly easy. The hardest one would be the one for rear end, but even then mercy could handle it.  I think he wanted to give me a word I would struggle with.  He loves that I hesatate when saying the word but, used as a conjunction.  I think he wants me to struggle and put in a lot of effort to please him

I say yep a lot, expecially after someone texts a long paregraph.  I mean it more as a yep read and understood responce, because I dont have much to add.  However, my dom likes to know exactly what I am thinking.  I think by limiting the use of this word he is hoping that I will actually respond to stuff in the text rather then just agnologing it. 

I think he also likes control over my language, and he will take more and more words in time.  He has told me this sorta, he has told me he is starting easy.  He is changing my vocabulary into what he likes.  Therefore, I deduse that he doesn’t particularly like the sound of the word yep, or he has other reasons he doesn’t want it in his toy’s vocabulary.  

The thing is with the words he takes away, I am not allowed to say them anywhere.  Not to him, not to family, not to friends, not online.  Not without permission.  I have to ask permission from him to say the word yep.  It reminds me of how much I belong to him, which is to say, compleatly.  Yesterday I said yep without a second thought.  Now every time I think the word yep I have to make sure to correct my thought so I don’t say yep outloud.

Request

A truant is cocooned and made ready for retrieval by the Asbethserilian Ministry of Truants, as the laminate expansion foam from the agent’s stopper pellets finishes fixing her in place.

Thank you!

C'mon doggy! Lick my boot! Prove you can be a good puppy-slave and maybe I'll give you a little time out from your cage so you can hump my leg. If I do though you'll have to lick up your mess too, think you can do that? Bark for me!

A year ago Adria had been your girlfriend when she came to you needing help with her psychology thesis, studying the effectiveness of long term orgasm denial for mental conditioning.

It had started slowly to begin with, every day she would have you tied down and edged repeatedly while a series of audio files played encouraging you to be more and more submissive to her, only allowed to orgasm at the end of each week- then every two weeks, then once a month... before long releases would only be granted after new milestones were achieved, degrading yourself as you sank deeper into total enslavement.

Now with you totally broken to her whim Adria is ready to move onto the next part of her experiment, testing whether a conditioned subject will retain the same level of submissiveness when rewards are taken away entirely. Your new cage is already waiting to be locked on after today's session, one that will never be removed...