Tl;dr

tl;dr

call your chastity bitch what he is. your bitch. remind him of the change your relationship dynamic as much as possible. call him your bitch. fuck him with a strapon the ways he used to fuck you and in the places he used to fuck you.

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my husband got used to fucking him in many places. he would fuck me in his car, in our bed, in our kitchen, in the living room, basement, where ever he felt the urge. to be sure, i did like it, but there was always something that made me jealous about it. why does he get to come in and decided to fuck me? wouldn't it be nice if i was the one that decided when and where we would have sex? well now that he's locked and i'm in charge of our sex life, i do get to decide.

ideas

when he gets home from work have your strap-on ready to go. greet him at the door and start kissing him. take him right there.

when he is cooking/cleaning, comment on how sexy it is to have him doing domestic work. start kissing him and then disappear. come back with a powerful strap-on and bend him over the island in your kitchen.

when he is doing something especially manly like working in the garage. perhaps building something or working on the car. put on some high heels and your strap-on. he'll hear your coming with the click click of your heels on the concrete before he sees your. by the time he sees you with your strap-on, it'll be very clear what is about to happen.