Look, I Don’t Want My Sub To Mechanically Stick To A Bunch Of Rules Like A Robot. I Want Them To Be

You live to serve her

"Sure, I could rub tanning oil onto my own chest, but I just love that pained look on your stupid face when the spikes start digging in.

Now, I want you to go nice and slow and savour every curve. I wanna see if I can make you cry."

Full wording as written in our contract:

I will lock your control collar around your neck anytime I please. You will remain passive and still while I install it.

You will show reverence for my authority by keeping your hands away from your collar at all times as a display of your happiness, contentment, and acceptance of being owned and controlled by me. Touching your collar with your hands will be considered a sign of disrespect for your owner.

If a leash is attached, never grasp or hold it with your hands either. It is an extension of the collar and is there to control you. Never attempt to interfere with it while it does it's job.

If the collar or leash become a choking or breathing hazard, you are free to adjust them, and if needed, remove them.

You will be punished for any disrespect you cause by touching your collar or leash needlessly. An instant slap across the face can be expected for each occurrence with more severe punishment if needed to break you of the habit.

The Face Dildo

Also rescued from my now defunct reddit.

A well teased sub is a well behaved sub. I think anyone in a FLR can agree with that. The more he is teased, the more frustrated and desperate he is. Which means, he understands the importance of obedience and good behavior.

He knows that if he isn't on his best behavior, and focused on his chores and tasks, and on her pleasure, that she will deny him longer, and not be inclined to even want to give him a release. The point is to always keep him wanting a release, knowing obedience is the only way to it. Painful punishment that he wants to avoid is often the alternative.

There are many ways to tease him, and it's important to have a variety of ways, because edging him every day or every other day can get tedious and boring. It's best not to make it a chore for her. Teasing should be fun for her, and always about her comfort, enjoyment, amusement, and pleasure.

One great way to cater to all that for her, is the face dildo. It's a wearable dildo, that straps onto his mouth. It includes a small gag, to help keep it secure in his mouth and straps around the back of his head. Once it's secured into place, she can then use the dildo as any other dildo, except, it's far more fun.

It's even more fun if he's locked away in chastity, since she can watch him strain and leak in the cage, while she lowers herself onto the dildo, and all he can do is breathe. It's an incredible view for him. Helpless in all ways except her intoxicating scent. Her scent will tease him enough alone.

However, it's the psychological aspects of the face dildo that will tease him that much more. Since he is helpless in any other way, all he can do is breathe, and watch, while she moves her body up and down, grinding on his face. It reminds him of what he's not allowed to have. As he lays beneath her, he will feel extremely owned, knowing the pleasure is all hers, and he is nothing more than a sex toy to her.

She can also have fun in other ways with a face dildo. If she doesn't want to be on top riding his face to glory, she could make him do all the work. She can lay back, and have him do all the thrusting with his face. Or, she can shift positions while on top so that his nose goes between her bum cheeks with every thrust. Literally rubbing his nose in it.

It also can serve as another way of teasing him, that his cock is going to be replaced with the face dildo. That it's the only penetration he's allowed. There's so many ways to tease him, that keep it fresh and exciting. Face dildos are just one toy to add to the collection, to spice up your FLR. Ultimately, it's up to how she wants it.

Bonus: For extra tease, don't forget to make him lick all the juices off the face dildo after cumming. It's the perfect way to share her orgasms with him... Since she cums for both.

The submissive's journey is only guide submissive men need!

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