“You have earned yourself seven strokes with the cane 🦯, it might seem harsh but you are better than this. You make excellent meals, but this is just sloppy behavior. I expect more from you” those were the words last night. Then I bend over and took my punishment, counting each stroke and thanking my Wife for her patience and guidance.
After this we went to bed I wrapped my arms around her and told her multiple times how sorry I was.
Needless to say I am at my best behavior today. I made a delicious breakfast, with fresh fruit, yogurt, toast, coffee, freshly squeezed orange juice. I was holding the chair for my Wife.
Was sure to clean the table, make the bed and before I got off to work, I again thanked her for correcting my behavior.
I got off work early today and got home so I could cook dinner tonight. Usually we eat sandwiches on Thursdays, because we are dancing west coast swing on Thursdays. So my Wife has agreed to this, because it means that we can get our dinner and my Wife can have a little break before we head to the dance class.
I really am ashamed that I was slacking in this manner. But It will help me to get better.
I really love my beautiful leading Wife ❤️
Is being a gfd less expensive than a less than gentle fd girlfriend?
Not really. I might not buy as many torture devices, but I spoil my bf rotten. New phone, Legos, flowers, dinner, sexy outfits, toys, collar and leash, trips and vacations, dance lessons, F1 tickets; all pretty expensive. So if you want to save money I really wouldn’t recommend it. I’m striving to become a successful lawyer for a reason haha it’s a very expensive lifestyle. But I love seeing my bf happy and how his eyes sparkle when he’s with me. I wouldn’t wanna change a damn thing about it. Cute boys deserve to be spoiled all the way. And I get goddess treatment in return, soo.. worth it.
Gah, I submitted a post instead of AMA. Ok here goes: My dominant isn't too keen on chastity devices since she wants access to me at all times (we use the honor system and I'm a very good boy). After reading your blog though I've noticed one of the big differences is I can get hard while a device I can't. Am I missing out on some mental aspects of chastity because of it? Also, any part 2 of "Will chastity ruin my boy? (My experience)"?
The short answer is yes, you are missing out on some aspects of chastity by not using a cage. The more nuanced answer is that there are pluses and minuses to each of the three forms of chastity and no matter which one you pick, you’ll miss out on something. Here are a few of the benefits of using a cage:
5) The inability get erections. It’s a total mind trip when you want to get hard but can’t. When a cage stops your erection it feels very tight, as if you are erect, but at the same time you can tell you haven’t fully unrolled the hose. It’s a unique sensation.
4) The weight of the metal as a cool reminder throughout the day. I’m told it feels very good to feel your encased balls swinging like a pendulum from time to time.
3) The ring behind the balls feels like your mistresses’ smooth but firm hand. I’ve found that sliding a ring back there instantly calms boys.
2) The inability to feel your cock or feel anything through your cock. You can grip that cage all day and the sensation will never equal gripping your bare shaft. It’s almost like it’s not there. Over time, without the friction of underwear, the skin gets more and more sensitive so that when you are released you feel every tiny caress. It can restore some sensitivity from years of over masturbation.
1) The loss of control. This is the best aspect of having a cage. The feeling of knowing that there is nothing you can do to escape, the feeling of being conquered, the feeling of having no choice and no freedom. It’s simultaneously highly exciting and strangely relaxing and reassuring.
Hypnosis chastity can offer this last benefit, with benefits of its own. Plus, the keyholder has full access to the goods should she want to use them.
There are many more small benefits from cage chastity that caged boys will probably add in the comments. Right boys?
Best of luck to you and your wonderful keyholder!
PS I really do need to give you guys part 2. I’ll get around to it. Promise. ;)
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