Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

rubbing your palm on the head of a boy’s cock while he’s tied to the bed and all he can do is whine and wiggle his hips>>>>>

It's been 3 weeks now. This has definitely been the longest we have gone and still going successfully. Today was to be release day, but we have changed it now to 3 months. 🔐

We're looking into longer term cages now. 3 months is a long time and I am concerned my slave husband will be uncomfortable. I have been researching through forums and we have decided on a surgical nylon chastity cage.

Locking up my slave for 3 months for me is a sacrifice. I love to have sex with him, but I also know that this is necessary. My slave has spent a lot of time being naughty and must have strict orgasm control. To help fill "the void" we have purchased a strap on and this will do just fine, along with him eating my pussy, which he happily loves to do. Domina B is not really missing anything at the moment. 🥰👑

I have learned that I do not like ruined orgasms. They provide way too much relief. Those will be saved for times when I am feeling generous. 🐌💦 I prefer to lay my husband under me, gagged and helpless while I peg him as I knead his nipples with my rubber gloved fingers for as long as I feel like. My goal is to peg my slave husband regularly and when he cums, those will be the only orgasms he gets for now.

I don't really know if after these 3 months I'll want to return to what we had before. We are switches, but at the moment I am loving the start of an FLR life. 👸🏻

6/13/21

@slave-to-dominab

Threats Make Brats Wet

Threats make the tummies of naughty brats flutter. Erotic threats are magic words that rattle the mind and set intimate places tingling.

An expert disciplinarian understands the psychology of subtle threats. In healthy kinky relationships, threats are not acts of intimidation, but a way to reciprocate when one partner wants attention and acts up to get it.

The most extreme kind of response is physical discipline, but if that was the only way a disciplinarian could respond, they'd be no fun to play with at all. There'd be no ambiguity, so sense of dancing close to the tripwire. No way to enjoy the erotic tension of pushing boundaries and wondering if you've gone too far.

If any provocation was immediately and invariably followed by a spanking, there'd be little space for the emotional and psychological enjoyment or discipline - and that would be no fun at all.

So, good disciplinarians enjoy a more subtle, progressive approach. When misbehaviour is noticed, it's far better that the consequences are foreshadowed. Think of this as a stairway with four steps.

The first step is the Verbal Warning. The disciplinarian recognises their charge's attempt to grab their attention, and cautions them that kind of behaviour will earn them a sore bottom. The threat is left hanging in the air.

The second step is Foreshadowing - where the brat is made to imagine the consequences of continued misbehaviour. They might be told: "You're choosing not to listen, and I'm losing patience. What happens when I lose patience?" And the brat will be made to explain in detail what the consequences of naughtiness really are. But still, their bum remains unsmacked.

The third step is The Brink. The brat will be sent to fetch the implement that will be used to spank them. They might be made to take off and hand over their panties, or change into a customary spanking outfit, like their pyjamas.

There might be a physical demonstration, with the spanking implement smacked against the spanker's palm, swished through the air, or whacked against a cushion. This theatrical performance should leave the naughty one in no doubt what's in store, but it need not automatically be followed by a spanking. Just like orgasms and edging, it's more effective to leave them teetering on the brink, buzzing with anticipation.

The final stage is, of course, the spanking itself. But this doesn't need to occur immediately. It might happen in a few hours, or at bedtime, or tomorrow, or whenever the recipient is least expecting it.

Remember what makes threats erotic and arousing is their inherent unpredictability. A brat should never truly know how close they are to a sore bottom - that's for their disciplinarian to decide. Threats make brats wet, and the best spankings come as a shocking surprise.

Chastity Training

1. You are not punishing your man - you are protecting him from his perfectly normal lack of self-control…

2. You are not denying him sexual pleasure. In fact, when you do release him from his male chastity belt, sex will feel better for him and his orgasms will become much more intense…

3. You are not denying yourself the sex life you deserve. While he’s locked up he’ll use his mouth and fingers to provide you with sexual satisfaction on a regular basis. And, there are ways that you have satisfying penetrative sex while he is still under lock and key…

4. Men will try to claim they need to have regular orgasms to stay healthy. This simply isn’t true. They do need to have ejaculations every so often; but you can make this happen in a matter of minutes without him getting an erection or having an orgasm…

5. Hundreds of thousands of married couples are in the male chastity lifestyle. It’s not kinky. In fact, the odds are that several of your friends already have their husband’s crown jewels locked away…

6. When done correctly, your man will feel more loved by you than he did before male chastity became a part of your life. In fact, most men eventually thank their wives for insisting on the lifestyle…

7. While at first you’ll only keep him locked up for a few days at a time, eventually he should be restricted to eight to 12 orgasms a year. This is more than enough…

8. Over time he’ll start to feel like more of a man, because he’ll know that all of his sexual energy is going towards pleasing you. He’ll like the fact that he no longer feels like a little boy who can’t help but play with his little pee-pee when you are not looking. Instead, he will be saving himself for you…

Thanks to LockedAndOnTheKnees!