Spend Your Time In Chastity Well

"See... made it here after all! And you said I had no sense of direction! I mean... I might have gone a bit of a scenic route but, we're here now."

"Oops! Had a little accident back there, huh? He he... OK, I guess it was a few minutes longer than I'd said. And I was wondering why you'd stopped complaining about needing to pee... well, now I know!"

"Ahh... feels good to stretch my legs. Hey! Come on, babe, coast's clear! You wanna get out quick before someone comes and sees you peed your pants." Emily announced loudly enough that if anyone was around, they'd have turned to look.

She was almost disappointed that it was such a quiet street. Still, she recognised several of her friends' cars, and as they were running late, albeit intentionally on her part, she'd have a few, highly appreciative witnesses soon enough.

Okay, some of you are going to say I'm going soft, but as a Queen it is my prerogative to be merciful.

p called me yesterday to confess that he was worried he would not be able to hold out until his collaring ceremony for his next release. he seemed genuinely worried that he wouldn't be able to resist the temptation to bring himself off while he's at home unlocked.

I pointed out that he'd gone longer before and it was particularly important to me now that he deny himself. He said that the difference was the time we spent together recently, including sleeping together (though not having sex). He couldn't get it out of his head and the thought was so arousing.

He said he understood why I was denying him, but if he couldn't have release, could I please lock him up. Now p hates being locked, so I knew he must really be finding temptation unbearable and he was honestly afraid he wouldn't be able to stop himself disobeying me.

I thought about calling him over and locking him up for the next few weeks, but then I decided, what the hell, I'll just let him have a release now. It could be February before he gets another and in hindsight, I may have mis-timed the last - letting him come just before Christmas and then making him super-horny over New Year.

We had a video call and I supervised him bringing himself off. OMG, he clearly did need it. He went off like a little Vesuvius and the relief on his little face was palpable. And he was so grateful! I felt a little guilty and I even teared up a bit. I was happy I made the right decision.

Having said that, I made clear that under NO circumstances would he get another release before his collaring, even if we had to delay it until summer. He said he understood that and assured me that he wouldn't ask. In fairness, he didn't ask this time, which is another reason I decided to stretch a point.

So perhaps I'm not the merciless Mistress you may like to imagine me; let's say I'm a benevolent Tyrant.

[Mistress] N x

NEVER grant a release.

CHASTITY DEVICES

Men are men and they will want to play with their penises, never mind their good intentions. So how do you enforce a ban on sexual releases? Even the most motivated man could easily have an “accident”. Well, some FLR couples do this using the honor system only, but I’d venture to say that a majority use a chastity device - we certainly do.

If you have read this far with a lingering fear in the back of your head that pursuing a FLR relationship will turn you into leather-clad sex maniacs with a bedroom full of whips and strange sexual toys, this might be where your warning lights go off. But fear not, this is the only piece of equipment that (in my opinion) is required, and it’s a very discreet one. Simply put, it’s a small plastic or metal cage that locks into place with a ring around his testicles, keeping his penis pointed downward and limited to a certain size (definitely not large enough for a proper erection). They can be worn 24/7 for longer periods of time, aren’t visible under clothes (if you take certain precautions), and come with a set of small keys that you should carry with you. Imagine that - his precious penis locked away, and you holding the keys.

If you are totally new to this, you might need a few minutes to process this. It may seem extreme, but really isn’t. It’s a tool that helps you help him. And if he’s like most men wanting to live in a FLR relationship, he can’t wait to start wearing it.

You won’t believe the combined effect that being denied, locked up, and teased can have on a man’s psyche. He will be aching to make you happy, in any small way he can. And the cage will be a constant reminder of your kinky arrangement, which he will (mostly) love. Not only do you have him do all these embarassing things for you, but he can’t even get a proper erection without your approval. Poor thing…

For you, it will feel quite nice knowing that you hold the keys to his most precious body part. Imagining him in a meeting with a bunch of blustering alpha men, with a locked penis hidden under his suit, that only you can unlock (and practically never do), might bring a smile to your face if you’re having a bad day at work.

@myheartinherhands

Not exactly the orgasms I meant, but thank you mistress!