Physical Vs Mental Corrections

Physical vs mental corrections

I have received in the last few weeks some questions via DM messages regarding the type of corrections Goddess Elise use to make sure my behavior is correct at all times. The questions comes as a response of this post I published talking about how women tend to be more strict dominants than males.

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I am not a masochist, I have never been one and I think I will never be one. I do not feel pleasure in pain for the sake of suffering. Nevertheless corporal punishment have been along history a common (and effective method) to ensure obedience of slaves and make sure error and mistakes do not happen more than one time. For me personally, corporal punishments does not have the best correction effect. The reason is that I do not enjoy pain, and in fact when I am suffering from corporal punishment, like whipping or caning, the only thing I could think is pain. If the punishment is intense enough my mind just enter in a block state, there is no learning, no regrets, no guilt for not doing my job properly...just the seconds ticking for the session to finish. I am extremely lucky Goddess Elise acquire me from my previous owner. Her interest when she needs to correct my behavior is focused on the purpose of the correction and not the punishment itself. For her punishments it is more work she need to do, when if I was behaving correctly that should not be needed. My main purpose is to make her life easier, extra work from her side is not acceptable at all.

That is the reason why Goddess Elise use more mental punishments. Some examples of this are:

Restriction on the human food intake, more dog food and less "human" leftovers.

Reducing my number of sleep hours to a bare minimum for a few consecutive days.

More duties. If I finish all my chores, I have to start over and over again until I am completely out of energy.

Long corner times.

Not allow the use of human furniture's at all for days (except at work of course)

Increase the number of toilet and ashtray duties (which are definitely not something I like to do)

Of course (and that is a constant) delay the chastity release date. Fortunately this still did not happen yet.

All of this are task not painful, but bring me to state of complete exhaustion. It is the perfect reminder that I am there to serve and make the life of my owner easier.

Keeper

I’ll start off by saying, your tumblr is amazing! I’ve already smiled several times reading some of these posts!

So, a very close friend of mind recently asked me to be his “Keeper.” I happily accepted this gift.

He is a virgin, and I…I’m a confident lesbian woman who is comfortable with sexuality and kink in general.

My reason for writing is that chastity is a new topic for me, especially coming from a male friend who is very aware he will never get anything from me.

Thank @acelyne for reaching out and thank you for the compliment!

Some of the best keyholders for chaste men are lesbian friends and ex-wives. Why? Because they need sacrifice nothing to enforce chastity and have very little sympathy for men whining about the importance of male ejaculation.

I’m glad your friend trusts you enough to hand over his keys and I’m glad to hear that you happily accepted. I know you will do just fine. You just might find that it’s a whole lot of fun.

The fact that he is a virgin in an interesting wrinkle. Some men get excited about the idea that a woman could be so cruel as to keep a man from ever having sex. Personally, while I could easily be that “cruel” without a moment’s hesitation, I prefer my locked boys to know what they’re missing.

I’m not exactly sure where you are in your keyholding journey or what specific questions you might have, Feel free to message me if you want more information.

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dangerousangleofadream

1 year ago