There comes a point in every FLR where the male sub comes to a realization. While submitting to her is amazing, and he loves it, and can't get enough of it. When she starts really utilizing and asserting her power, he begins to realize that there really is no going back. That it's actually impossible to go back.
He's suddenly caught in a net, where he realizes that if he backed out due to being scared, and afraid to fully commit to her, he knows within a few hours, or days, he would regret pulling away, and come crawling back to her. So he knows any rebellion against her authority is completely and utterly hopeless. So instead, he begins to stew in his own frustration, fighting with himself, trying to hang on to whatever control he can, in his mind.
This makes him ache to the point of desperation, and since he is not allowed to relieve that desperation, he reaches a boiling point, where he suddenly breaks. He knows he's not allowed to beg for a release, but he will beg anyway. He will whimper, he may even cry. He will get on his knees and beg. This is a point where he will say, he will do anything for her.
It's important that she understands what he's going through. She is witnessing the breaking of his ego, his last desperate hope of clinging onto control. His last ounce of weakness, of resistance to her. Rather than punish him, she should completely and totally embrace him.
Make him feel safe. Cuddle with him, hold him close, and tell him it will be alright. This isn't the time to make him service you more, it's a time of bonding, intimacy, love, and loyalty. If he feels safe in his extreme vulnerability, he will finally come to the realization, that she is all he needs. That she will take care of him, and that it's okay for him to let her authority rule his life.
It's an incredible moment, and foundation of real solid trust is built here. It's the moment he dedicates himself in service to her, the moment she becomes the center of his world, and he will no longer resist her, all reservations, inhibitions, and hesitations will fall away. Obedience will become the only thing that matters. He will trust her judgement in decisions without back talking. He will defer to her all decisions and trust she knows best.
When he breaks down and begs, never let him have a release. This would reinforce his last remnants of control and he would think that begging is a weak spot for her, and he will use it again and again whenever he gets desperate. So no, never have mercy, never give in. Just hold him and tell him he will be okay, and that you're there for him.
Let him figure out that when he stops resisting her, his frustration will become more bearable, and more importantly, he will want to bear it. It's the greatest gift she could possibly receive, when he breaks down and begs in frustration, because it's a give away, it means, he finally understands his place at her feet.
IN THE HIVE
True story, recent...
I was coming back home for a break on a plane yesterday. Before boarding I had noticed (it was kind of impossible not to) this Goddess with short leather pants exposing magnificent creamy white legs in clear heeled flesh-pink boots with matching pink socks. I had to pick my jaw up off the floor the first time I looked at (and drooled over) her.
I tried to talk to her two times on the plane, but her response was pure ice-bitch both times. The second time she cut me down to size in front of other passengers and a stewardess. I walked back to my seat like a humiliated dog with my tail between my legs. I stared at her boots (all I could see from my seat) and tried (unsuccessfully) to imagine being a real stud who was good enough to fuck her.
I was walking in town after and two beautiful women were walking down the stairs from the train to the street. One in a tight tube top exposing her perfect midriff and tight against magnificent breasts, the other in skin tight white see through jeans and a low cut top. Total power and perfection. They were taking selfies, posing and primping on the stairs, no doubt tormenting their many social media orbiters with what they can never EVER have.
As I looked trance-like, the tube top girl gave me a look of total rejection, disgust and contempt, while the tight jeans girl called me out verbally.
Later I relived their collective contempt as I orgasmed with my girlfriend. My first sex in three months. My first orgasm in three months.
I remember, just now, some exercises a bitchy girl I know had told me to do several months back, that I tried, and failed, to do. They involved a hands free orgasm where I clasped my hands behind my back, imagined ridicule from women who had rejected me across the years, and came hands free to my humiliation. Even though I was not able to complete the exercises after several attempts upon her order; it appears her goal of having me only able to achieve orgasm to humiliation by SUPERIOR WOMEN like her has been realized. I admit I had been going down that road for a while, but had, for the most part, fought it off -till she arrived on the scene. Now I cannot orgasm without some measure of humiliation.
I see sexy, powerful women, and all I want to do is serve them. My sex drive is for the most part subjugated. Or connected to service.
But I am not unhappy with this turn of events. And it doesn't necessarily make me feel like a loser, either.
I just feel like beautiful women are superior to me. Period. They do not want me. They never have. They never will, unless it is as friends.
BUT I still WANT THEM. Bad. So I need to put up with any mistreatment they wish to give me, if I wish to play ANY role in their lives.
That's just what real life as an inferior doormat to hot girls I want but can never have, is....
I’m 6’4 btw
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