Are You Gentle With Your New Locked Boys? How Do You Not Scare Them Off As You Click The Lock Shut?

are you gentle with your new locked boys? how do you not scare them off as you click the lock shut?

I am gentle with my newly locked boys, but by that token, I’m gentle with all my boys. I live to hold their hands, rub their backs, kiss their tears and whisper in their ears. They don’t run away when the lock clicks shut because they can feel my warmth, my affection for them (oh, and they know I’m the only one with the keys).

Tonight I had a newish boy over for dinner. I made him lemongrass citrus salmon with ginger glaze and dumplings. After dinner we cuddled on the couch and I traced the outline of his chin and jaw while nibbling on his ear and running my hands through his hair for an hour or two. I asked him to tell me all about his greatest triumphs and fears while I tweaked his nipples under his shirt. He didn’t get unlocked and he won’t be for another week but I think he left feeling appreciated and loved.