CHALLENGERS (2024) Dir. Luca Guadagnino.
Cancer Mars
💝 he takes a while to move on & get over things. he’s known for holding grudges & he has great memory.
💝 he has more feminine energy.
💝 he values honesty & hates liars. he has strong intuition & he’s very observant.
💝 he has a hard time dealing with conflict logically & rationally as he’s very emotional. when he’s angry he’ll likely say things in the heat of the moment which he’ll regret later on. he can be very passive aggressive at times too. the best way to piss him off during conflict is to stand your ground & not let him guilt trip you, showing him that his emotions don’t effect you.
💝 he’s emotionally intelligent meaning he knows how to persuade/manipulate others into doing what he wants.
💝 his highs & lows can be exhausting & nauseating for him & others.
💝 when he’s attracted to someone he comes off very nurturing (eg buy you chocolate or flowers). if he doesn’t come off as caring then he doesn’t care.
💝 he tends to put a lot of importance into aftercare & not receiving it can straight up ruin the experience for him.
💝 he is sexually passionate with deep & intense needs for emotional safety within a rxship. he’s likely to want sexual contact to reassure himself that he is wanted. although this need to be wanted extends beyond sex & will permeate their whole life. he may try to make himself indispenable to others so that he will never be abandoned. in sexual relationships, he needs to feel he belongs, protected & secure; he will in turn offer a sense of protection & containment to his partner.
💝 he has a habit of projecting his insecurities onto others.
💝 un-evolved cancer energy is self deprecation, victim mentality & still hung up on a toxic ex from ten years ago.
💝 breeding fetish (he likes the idea of making a baby).
💝 he needs validation & attention.
💝 submission fantasies - he may like it when you’re a little aggressive or disapline him in bed as long as he knows you love him.
💝 known as the sign most attracted to breasts. the breasts/chest are his erogenous zone (stroke his chest, play with his nips) but remember his body is very sensitive so be gentle.
💝 he will often mother his partner & want mothering himself.
💝 he likes emotional vulnerability (opening up to him & emotional closeness). he wants a sensitive & intuitive partner who can understand his complex emotional landscape.
💝 he likes nurturing & caring gestures as well as slow & romantic build ups (soft music, heart-felt convo, home-cooked food, thoughtful gifts, bubble baths, forehead kisses, cuddles)
💝 he loves anything to do with loyalty & binding - “i wanna take care of you”, “i want you to be happy” “give it to me”
💝 he likes eye contact ( feeling seen, wanted & protected).
💝 he’s attracted to strong, tall & protective women with big breasts & nymphomanics (a woman who has abnormally excessive & uncontrollable sexual desire).
💝 he may want it more when he can’t have it meaning he loves teasing & edging.
💝 water mars love positions where they can see their partners face.
💝 he does not collaborate well with other cancer mars people.
💝 he dislikes his lover being too independent.
💝 not being listened to.
💝 he is a romantic, protective, soothing & sensual lover in bed. he can spend the whole day in bed with his partner. he loves turning cuddles, foreplay & sex into long sessions that seemingly have no end.
💝 he tends to treat sex as a very emotional/physical act rather than solely physical. sex & love go hand-in-hand for him. he needs an emotional connection to even consider sex with someone.
💝 he enjoys pleasing his partner & will do almost anything to do so.
💝 since he is emotional, he can have an explosive temper & release that anger during sex, making him sometimes very rough in bed.
💝 cancer is a deeply private sign & needs to feel safe before they reveal themself. nothing turns him off faster than a partner who comes on too strong or tries to push him into intimacy before he’s ready. he’s too sensitive & romantic to respond to a blunt sexual appeal. even in a long-term union, he prefers the indirect approach; he rarely comes right out & says he wants sex (all water sign mars may take more time & could be looking to emotionally connect before they sleep with you).
CHALLENGERS 2024 — dir. Luca Guadagnino
Even if she’s already your girl, never forget to flirt with her
Love to see women remain unbothered and detached to the opinions of bitter people aiming to shame them.
It’s really about having the mindset of “Your opinions of me are none of my business and I’ll continue to flourish whether you approve or not.”
This unshakable confidence is what i love to see women live by.
lol his mind is so filthy😍 Interview | Actor CALLUM TURNER 🎥 Evening Standard Magazine · 13.11.2019
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