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Alexa Demie on the sets of Euphoria s2 via @andiejjane @alexandraafrench and @donni.davy instagram.

The Gold Digger Archetype

Learn to embody the Gold Digger archetype

There is motive behind everything the Gold-digger does. She aligns herself with high values, indulges in healthy self-care rituals, and only surrounds herself with those who are supportive.

The Gold-digger resembles a Goddess on Earth.

Her appearance is beautiful, her standards stay high, and she expects to be respected and adored.

By having a self-deserving attitude and allowing others to pour into her, the Gold- digger has mastered the art of receiving. She doesn't hesitate to set her price and expect the deposit.

Examples in media: Kim Kardashian, Naomi Campbell, Lori Harvey

The Gold Digger is represented by the tarot cards, the Queen of Pentacles and the Empress.

If this is your archetype, you realize your value and you refuse to settle for anything less.

You have big aspirations in life and enjoy a lifestyle of opulence and luxury. You have no issue with being alone but if you are to be associated with another person, that person would have to be a winner in life and very successful. You know what you want and don't waste time entertaining anything less. Many view your standards as harsh but you don't mind. You maintain your high standards, whether others agree with them or not. Your confidence is unshakable, and your presence is admirable to all.

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The moon is silver, I like silver

Embracing Your [Unique] Features

I see plastic surgery, adjustments, and fillers on beautiful women on a daily basis. From minor adjustments to full face changes. I’ll be the first to admit that I am NOT against plastic surgery or fillers. You should do what makes you happy. However, you shouldn’t get these life changing procedures solely to look like someone else.

For decades, main stream media has portrayed a certain look for women to strive for. For years, it was the “blond haired, blue eyed-white girl”. Now it’s the “dark long haired, full lip-bombshell”. It’s sad because the media has led gorgeous girls to believe they have to look like someone else to be considered attractive.

This post is to show you the benefits of embracing your unique attributes. Often, what these girls forget is that the women we deem ‘beautiful, sexy, or confident’ actually don’t fit the beauty standard.

The women that society puts on a pedestal have notably embraced their unique features and had an easier time branding themselves because they looked unique instead of a walking clone.

Skin tone

Dita Von Teese has never been shy when it comes to embracing her extremely pale skin tone. She has admitted that her style and persona doesn’t fit the normal beauty standards. She could’ve easily spray tanned like most celebrities do to get a darker complexion but instead she embraced the fair skin she has. Now, whenever you see Dita in a photo, magazine, or video there’s no second guessing - you know that’s her because of her unique aesthetic.

She even brings attention to her fair skin by adding dark lipstick and hair. Her beauty doesn’t come from looking like anyone else but herself.

Hair

When it comes to having their own hairstyles that suits them, Beyonce and Ariana Grande nail it. Beyoncé has switched up her hair numerous times but the color and styles still scream “Beyonce”. The honey brown tone and curls are what I think of when I imagine Beyonce’s face. Imagine if Beyonce decided to be ‘on trend’ and get a lace front wig & baby hairs like everyone else has. Instead, she drops “Lemonade” and brings cornrows back in style! She is aware of the colors, curl patterns and styles that work for HER. Don’t worry about what style is cool at that moment. Instead, figure out what looks good on YOU. Wear hairstyles that you actually like and that suit you best, not what someone else has.

Style

The icon herself - Ms Rihanna Fenty. I do not have to explain because we all know Rih is known for her avant garde style and iconic looks. She is the queen of “NEVER playing it safe” when it comes to fashion. I understand that Rihanna has a team of people who’s job is to ensure she’s best dressed. However, that doesn’t deny the fact that her style is original and unconventional. Rihanna doesn’t look to see what everyone else is wearing or what the trendy items are, she creates the trends.

I know that we all can’t be Rihannah’s, but you can be that girl in your own city, town or neighborhood that’s known for having her unique style and fashion. You will never get credit or noticed for looking like everyone else, but you will get credit for having a style that is your own.

Personality

Lastly but mostly importantly, your personality. Meeting someone who has their own opinions and not the opinions of what they see on social media. I miss meeting people that had their own unique personality and vibe. Your weird, hilarious, loud, or odd personality is what makes you unique and memorable. People will easily forget you if you’re just like everyone else.

A lot of these blogs try to tell you the “proper” or “right” way of thinking, behaving, and speaking. The truth is, you’ll get far putting on an act but people will eventually see right through you, or worse - get bored with you.

Cardi B is where she is today not because of her talent, but because of her out of the box personality. She’s loud, obnoxious, and says whatever the fuck comes to mind. People love that about her because they are too afraid to do that themselves.

Issa Rae’s quirky and awkward personality is what makes her a cultural favorite. She isn’t afraid to be herself, in fact she embraces it. While everyone is trying to be a bad bitch or hot girl she is just being Issa. She is so well liked in the community not just for talent and shows, but for her awkward & funny personality.

To reiterate, I have no problem with plastic surgery, enhancements or even changing behaviors about yourself. I just want you to consider why you’re doing it. If you truly believe you need to make these changes in order to excel in life or feel better, then do it.

But, if you think these changes will make you appear as someone else then you should reconsider. Everyone has something that is different and unique about themselves which help them stand out. Use those unique attributes to your advantage.

X, @luxuryandbrown

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QUEEN OF THE DAMNED (2002) dir. Michael Rymer

The Dark Feminine Archetypes

Once you activate the part of you that is presumed forbidden (your Dark Feminine Archetype), your energy will radiate seduction, confidence and intensity, for the truth of the matter is, anything forbidden is intensely more desirable.

The Lilith

The Witch

The Gold-Digger

The Siren

Are you ready to awaken your dark side?

Sunmi “Tail” concept photos