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People always tell you "just be confident", but part of begin confident is to think highly of you, the other part it's goe to accept you shadow side and the third is how to recognize your flaws (I'll make separate guides for each one of these), it's easy to be confident, but it's hard to find the procedure to be confident, so I'm here to share with you the first steps, that I used to become more confident.
୨୧Positive affirmations୨୧
This is a basic step and a very useful one, sometimes we don't get enough words of encouragement from others, try to show those lovely words to yourself and oversaturate your mind with uplifting affirmations.
୨୧Hygiene୨୧
This is a very important point. Smelling good can make you way more confident, it makes you feel take care of yourself compared to the average individual. When you smell good people want to be more around you and you also want to be more around people, which makes you feel social, enjoyable and cared for.
୨୧Hobbies୨୧
When you have hobbies you feel interesting and have a more arguments to talk about, it helps connect with others,and if you have solo hobbies you will start growing into loving yourself and feel comftable in your own company.
୨୧Help people when they need it and when you can୨୧
Help people but not in people pleasing way, but in a "I want to help you cause I love the feeling of begin able to make someone's pain less relevant", helping others in your means makes you feel good.
Today's guide it's quite short, I want to thank you hunns for your supports, I'm really grateful for this opportunity and begin able to share tips with you, I hope you have a LOVELY day, if you want to ask a sepatated advice just send me an anonymous question, I'll gladly answer!! xoxo gourgeous
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▪️ sagittarius we are bold, expressive, independent & expansive. Expansive we are in all that we do, it's the "go big or go home" motto for us. We know that the bigger things we do, the impactful it is for us & we know how to make our mark, be it on people or places.
▪️the value of freedom to us is greatly appreciated, the restrictions on the things we are passionate about, will be heavily opposed off because we know we strive better when things aren't at our hands reach. We like challenges & we'd constantly challenge ourselves but that doesn't mean we don't mind taking the easier route.
▪️we move at our own pace, we find comfort in knowing that we are the only ones we know, we could ever count on. And that is why we guard our hearts wholely and we selective choose who will get to know who we are as an individual.
▪️our sharp tongues & great wit come hand in hand but can also be a double edge sword to us. To need to communicate is strongly embedded in us, we value the words we say and what is in our head will be said. We are outspoken & brutally honest, we don't mince our words because we understand the rawness of what's needed to be said. A breath of fresh air
▪️sometimes we may be tactless with our words but we do know our intentions are good, we have a heart of gold and would only want what's best for the people we care about.
▪️ unapologetically themselves, they don't settle for less. We don't mind giving second chances unless we see the person really willing to commit to change, however if we are done with that person, it's over for good. We never bring the same person who's fucked up back into our lives because we already gave chances.
▪️we have high standards and if it's not met with a person/place or thing, just know it'll always be replaceable to us.
▪️like a horse we keep forging forward but that doesn't mean we forget, we NEVER forget.
▪️we pay attention to not just the big things but the details as well, we understand that the little things matter too. But it isn't enough for us to take things too seriously, we find joy in little things & we wouldn't waste that moment to.
▪️sagittarius are also protective & loyal to the people they care about deeply, however it may be rare on who they give their loyalty too but best believe they won't let you down when it comes to it.
▪️to them it's an unspoken rule to being open-minded and thoroughly understanding of people's differences, they understand what it's like to be misunderstood & to be judged. One of the least judgemental signs out there, you will feel how warm-hearted they can be.
▪️however if done wrong, they can be the most uncaring or they would pretend to have never met you at all. They are the masters of not giving a fuck, despite their warm hearted nature they have the coldest look in their eyes.
▪️ sagittarius are the "protector" of their friend group, they understand the world can be cruel just as they gave been harsh on them. They will protect their friend to shield the bad and protect the good in them, just so they wouldn't fall into societies foul ways.
(I USED ALEXA DEMIE BECAUSE SHES A SAGITTARIUS HERSELF ) 🌹🧿🤍💯
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