WHICH DARK FEMININE ARCHETYPE ARE YOU?

Embracing Your [Unique] Features

I see plastic surgery, adjustments, and fillers on beautiful women on a daily basis. From minor adjustments to full face changes. I’ll be the first to admit that I am NOT against plastic surgery or fillers. You should do what makes you happy. However, you shouldn’t get these life changing procedures solely to look like someone else.

For decades, main stream media has portrayed a certain look for women to strive for. For years, it was the “blond haired, blue eyed-white girl”. Now it’s the “dark long haired, full lip-bombshell”. It’s sad because the media has led gorgeous girls to believe they have to look like someone else to be considered attractive.

This post is to show you the benefits of embracing your unique attributes. Often, what these girls forget is that the women we deem ‘beautiful, sexy, or confident’ actually don’t fit the beauty standard.

The women that society puts on a pedestal have notably embraced their unique features and had an easier time branding themselves because they looked unique instead of a walking clone.

Skin tone

Dita Von Teese has never been shy when it comes to embracing her extremely pale skin tone. She has admitted that her style and persona doesn’t fit the normal beauty standards. She could’ve easily spray tanned like most celebrities do to get a darker complexion but instead she embraced the fair skin she has. Now, whenever you see Dita in a photo, magazine, or video there’s no second guessing - you know that’s her because of her unique aesthetic.

She even brings attention to her fair skin by adding dark lipstick and hair. Her beauty doesn’t come from looking like anyone else but herself.

Hair

When it comes to having their own hairstyles that suits them, Beyonce and Ariana Grande nail it. Beyoncé has switched up her hair numerous times but the color and styles still scream “Beyonce”. The honey brown tone and curls are what I think of when I imagine Beyonce’s face. Imagine if Beyonce decided to be ‘on trend’ and get a lace front wig & baby hairs like everyone else has. Instead, she drops “Lemonade” and brings cornrows back in style! She is aware of the colors, curl patterns and styles that work for HER. Don’t worry about what style is cool at that moment. Instead, figure out what looks good on YOU. Wear hairstyles that you actually like and that suit you best, not what someone else has.

Style

The icon herself - Ms Rihanna Fenty. I do not have to explain because we all know Rih is known for her avant garde style and iconic looks. She is the queen of “NEVER playing it safe” when it comes to fashion. I understand that Rihanna has a team of people who’s job is to ensure she’s best dressed. However, that doesn’t deny the fact that her style is original and unconventional. Rihanna doesn’t look to see what everyone else is wearing or what the trendy items are, she creates the trends.

I know that we all can’t be Rihannah’s, but you can be that girl in your own city, town or neighborhood that’s known for having her unique style and fashion. You will never get credit or noticed for looking like everyone else, but you will get credit for having a style that is your own.

Personality

Lastly but mostly importantly, your personality. Meeting someone who has their own opinions and not the opinions of what they see on social media. I miss meeting people that had their own unique personality and vibe. Your weird, hilarious, loud, or odd personality is what makes you unique and memorable. People will easily forget you if you’re just like everyone else.

A lot of these blogs try to tell you the “proper” or “right” way of thinking, behaving, and speaking. The truth is, you’ll get far putting on an act but people will eventually see right through you, or worse - get bored with you.

Cardi B is where she is today not because of her talent, but because of her out of the box personality. She’s loud, obnoxious, and says whatever the fuck comes to mind. People love that about her because they are too afraid to do that themselves.

Issa Rae’s quirky and awkward personality is what makes her a cultural favorite. She isn’t afraid to be herself, in fact she embraces it. While everyone is trying to be a bad bitch or hot girl she is just being Issa. She is so well liked in the community not just for talent and shows, but for her awkward & funny personality.

To reiterate, I have no problem with plastic surgery, enhancements or even changing behaviors about yourself. I just want you to consider why you’re doing it. If you truly believe you need to make these changes in order to excel in life or feel better, then do it.

But, if you think these changes will make you appear as someone else then you should reconsider. Everyone has something that is different and unique about themselves which help them stand out. Use those unique attributes to your advantage.

X, @luxuryandbrown

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Toji Fushiguro

Feeling his big length

Have him pound into your ass

Riding him in the living room of your house

Treating you like a slut

Fucking you into the sheets

Loud enough the neighbors could hear you

Satoru Gojo

Riding him in front of a mirror

Car sex with him

Sucking him off in his bedroom

How you guys first met

Pounding into you in the middle of the living room

Move night turns into fuck night

Geto Suguru

Slapping your ass from behind

Finger you in the morning

Fucking you in the back seat of a car

Fucking you into the couch

Using no protection

Eating you out

Choso kamo

Riding him reverse cowgirl style

Needy in the morning

Wearing a school girl uniform for him

Fucking you while you play the game for him

Letting him cum inside

Finger you

Not mine

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Always wear your cutest outfit. Stop saving so many looks for “special occasions”. You showing up is a special occasion. Look your best.

art, patrick, tashi & astrology

anyone else ever wonder what art, patrick, and tashi's big three are? no? well, i have.

(the stars wrote that they'd all be compatible in some way, but also drive each other insane).

art donaldson:

libra sun: charming, sociable, and diplomatic. values harmony and balance in their relationships and surroundings. has strong sense of justice and fairness, often striving to create peace and avoid conflict. very unsuspecting and unwilling to take the blame. has deep desire for beautiful things.

cancer rising: comes across as nurturing, sensitive, and intuitive. very caring and protective of their loved ones, often putting others' needs before their own. may appear reserved or cautious when first meeting people but are deeply loyal once they form a bond.

virgo moon: can lack self-confidence. content with living “regular”, unassuming lives. easily overwhelmed by pressure and stress. quite shy in love, easily intimidated on a sexual level, but they aim to please nonetheless.

patrick zweig:

leo sun: confident, charismatic, big personality - enjoys being the centre of attention. has a strong sense of pride but they may be perceived as conceited and self-absorbed. leadership comes naturally to them. craves approval and affection from others.

aquarius rising: unique, independent, forward-thinking. often seen as unconventional and may have a rebellious streak. can come across as sociable and friendly but may also appear detached or aloof. likes getting a rise out of others, are quietly provocative and irreverent.

pisces moon: deeply sensitive and strongly intuitive. very empathetic and perceptive of people and their emotions & inner-workings. they can be flaky and absent-minded. very idealistic - sometimes sees the world through rose-colored glasses.

tashi duncan:

aries sun: confident, energetic, assertive. natural leaders with a strong desire to take initiative and pursue their goals with enthusiasm and determination. often direct, courageous, and willing to take risks.

capricorn rising: presents themselves as disciplined, ambitious, and responsible. they ooze competence, and are very image-oriented. sets long-term goals and works diligently to achieve them. may come across as reserved, cautious or dead-pan.

scorpio moon: emotional life is intense, passionate, and deeply private. due to strong emotions, they have a deep need for emotional security and control. incredibly perceptive and intuitive - often able to see beneath the surface of situations and people. may be prone to secrecy and a desire for transformative experiences (i feel like this is why she cuts her hair at different stages of her life).

p.s. i know this is silly but really, to me, its just a fun way to analyze their characters.

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