Alloaros are not inherently more sexual than anyone else, and they don’t have to have sex to prove their alloaroness. An alloaro who has never had sex or who no longer has sex — whether due to not being able to find a partner, being celibate, experiencing trauma, not being ready, or any other reason — is no less alloaro than someone who has had lots of sex or who has one or more foveo(s)/FWB(s). There is no shame in an alloaro person having sexual relationships that don’t involve romantic feelings (or even platonic feelings!), but being alloaro without having sex isn’t a contradiction either.
While separating relationships into strictly sexual, platonic, or romantic or some combination of those is fine for understanding the aromantic and asexual spectrum at a basic level, we must eventually understand that some relationships will never fit into these categories and often queer relationships are more complex than that, and our definition of queer relationships must include abstract relationships. As a community based on gender anarchy, debasing gender roles, and freedom to love how we will, we have to move away from immediately defining relationships.
I love this image more than words can describe. Based quads representation frfr
I love doing quads with Dakota (the horse)!!!!
Ehehehehhe walkie walkie through the woods
He's always so flabbergasted... I think he tends to forget I can do that ♡♡♡
Us 🥺💖
new favorite YouTube comment just dropped
Can I not break the curse?
Shrek wrote the correct ending
in preparation for this pride month i need all of you to finally learn that ace is NOT aromantic and learn the fucking difference i am so fucking sick and tired of people saying "x character is uninterested in romance, theyre ace :)" NO THEYRE NOT!!! THEYRE AROMANTIC!!!!!!!!!! THATS NOT WHAT ASEXUAL MEANS!!!!!!!!!!!
Aromantic Experiences Bingo (blank card)
(If you're confused about the "romantic relationships are just being best friends + more emotional/ physical intimacy" (this question got asked a lot), I tried to explain this here: https://www.tumblr.com/sternenschaukler/763340936371683328/why-isnt-a-romantic-relationship-just-being-best )
starting to do quadrobics again was one of the best decisions ive made recently, along with starting to rp warrior cats again. to be cringe is to be free :3
aro culture is being in a semi-qpr with your aro best friend. we've talked about it before and the general conclusion is this: were not in a qpr, but were not-not in one either. honestly it just depends on what works best for the bit lol. get weird with it!!!!
yes! get weird with it!
It's hard being a single mom of four to eight kids (she's bad at math)
Also self imposed design challenge to design an infant rodent that doesn't look like eraserhead baby
"racecar" being a palindrome is so fucked up