You’ve grown into someone who would have protected you as a child. And that is the most powerful move you made.
الافضل هو عدم تجربته وابقاء القلب طاهرا الى ان يكون اول من يدخله هو الزوج .. هكذا عاشت
نساء فاضلات على مدى قرون ، كان هنالك قصص ولكن ليست في مجتمع المؤمنات الصادقات
How was your experience with love? The best thing is not to try it and keep the heart pure until the first person to enter it is the husband. This is how virtuous women lived for centuries. There were stories, but not in the community of true believers.
Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله:
{بدائع التفسير ٨٨/٢}
[Reported by Ibn 'Abbās in Marfū' form]
The Prophet (ﷺ) said,
"Be gentle [1],
and gentleness shall be rendered to you."
[1] Easygoing, Forgiving
[سلسلة الصحيحة]
Explaning it,
Manāwī said,
"Deal with Allah's creation who are [all] dependent upon Him and so are His slaves with gentleness [i.e, forgiveness] and ease. [and] their Master [Allah] will render the same to you in this Dunyā and Akhirah."
[كتاب فيض القدير]
If you lack confidence - LEARN-
If you want to learn - study the best performers
If you want to study the best Performers - see them in action
If you see them in action - Do follow up with questions to them
Their replies will boost your learning
I think she’s in trouble!! 💜💜💜💜
Shaykh Uthaymeen رحمه الله said :
❝Supplicating for your parents during the Taraweeh or Tahajjud prayer is better than slaughtering 10 camels on their behalf.❞
[Al-Liqā Al-bāb Al-Maftūḥ, no. 115]