These are very natural feelings for beta losers. We don't deserve sexual gratification in any form from women and we are being selfish if we have any expectations at all that a woman will provide us with one of the above gratifications the OP shared. We are disappointments in the sexual world and not "curable". It is only natural for a beta male to work hard to back off of these thoughts and train his mind to be free of thoughts of being touched. Now certainly you can and should be free to imagine your wife/gf/crush touching OTHER men and fulfilling all of the desires of OTHER men in the most carnal of ways. Just never thoughts of her touching you. Your own (insert your favorite beta term for you penis here) should only be satisfied by your own hand or by an inanimate object that's guided by your own hand. These are important beta lessons to learn and embrace
The rare times my penis would get pussy, a HJ or a FJ it would feel good, sure... but during and afterward I could never escape the feeling, the thought "I don't deserve this". After cumming I felt like a fraud. My penis shouldn't have came this way, it didn't deserve this, I'm being selfish expecting her touch. This is what real men get not me.
The only way that feels right for a beta like me to cum is with my hand. I'm nervous, but looking forward to a masturbation only 2023 for my little dick!
Hi, I read some of your posts and I really liked reading it.
My gf wants to start cuckolding me. (Consensually) do you have any advice for first timers?
First off accept her desire to cuckold you entirely and never react negatively towards her regardless of what happens. If she wants to explore, you owe it to her to fully give in to that and allow her whatever she needs in order to make that happen...second, communicate and talk...then talk some more...and then talk even more on top of that. You may be surprised at what you learn not only about her but about yourself through all of this communication. I know I sure learned a great many things along the way...some more painful and difficult to accept but truths none the less. Personally I was and continue to be very appreciative for the honesty because it has allowed me to grow into what I truly am and has allowed me to find pure bliss and peace
An enlightened beta loser sees a photo like this and immediately recognizes all of the things that can go very wrong. For example, rather than just enjoying how gorgeous she is, and how hot her lingerie and heels are, a loser can't fight the perseverating thoughts of "is my penis big enough? Can I last long enough? Will she laugh at me? Will she mock me if I can't get the job done? What if I can't find her clit? What if I get too nervous?" And many more. Performance anxiety, nervousness and worry flood a beta loser's brain creating a truly fearful response to a situation like this. This is why the truly enlightened are keenly aware that pussy is not for them. Not now. Not ever. Pussy is exclusively the domain of real men who don't have a single one of these thoughts and know how to take her, ravish her and leave her wanting more and more. Losers are a disappointment. And yes, she would mock you and laugh at you and tell all her friends how horrible the experience was with you. This is why a smart loser will never even attempt to venture outside of the friend zone.
Every beta loser that tricked a woman into being their wife or girlfriend has a duty and an obligation to ensure that her suffering ends, and that means no longer having horrible sex with you, and incredible sex with other men who are far more qualified for the job than you are. If you love her, sit her down, admit your failures, admit that you will never overcome your failures at sex, tell her you're completely at peace with your shortcomings and beg her to deny you for the remainder of your lifetime. Tell your partner that you only want her to have sex with other men and assure her that you'll love her even more as a result and support her through everything that comes her way... This is a beta loser's place in life. Never having sex with women... rejected...denied... humiliated... embrace your place ♥️
You did have concerns when the therapist first recommended cuckolding, but now that things have progressed to this point, yo realize that all you can do is to take her advice about being the best cuckold you can be, even if that means no longer being able to have sex with your wife.
Such a simple yet powerful word. When you're a beta loser you inevitably hear this word from women often. In fact most losers seek out and obsess over the very women most likely to reject and deny them. Over time you learn to crave women's rejection. You know they're providing you kindness by being so direct and blunt with you. Being told "no" or to fuck off begins to feel like beta love. Your crush's rejection of you is painful yet deep down a loser understands that this is the sweetest way she could ever pay attention to you
An enlightened beta loser is proud of feeling this way. The mere thought of pussy terrifies me now. That is so far out of my league and wheelhouse. Pussy is for real men. Not losers. I'm very proudly beta sex for life
When youre a loser and your hot bitchy coworker leaves her shoes under her desk for the weekend, don't think...just act.. take them. This is an opportunity for a full weekend of sniffing, fondling and licking them while you picture her being fucked by a real man. An entire weekend of staying at home alone and having countless hours of beta sex with her heels... Then on Monday, after sleeping with them, loving them, exhausting yourself from pampering and treating them right, you can head into work early and return those very well loved and well cleaned heels right to where you stole them from and start her week off right with very clean shoes ♥️
When you're a beta loser and feel the undeniably strong urge for intimacy, you do not waste an ounce of your energy in being inappropriate and thinking about trying to be with a woman. Intimacy... particularly sexual intimacy begins and ends right here with a pair of her lovingly well worn shoes. Their scent is full of her pheromones and will literally addict you to her more and more as you sniff...and pulling your ick stick while doing so doubles down and rewires the pleasure and reward centre within your brain. Call it the double whammy. Entrapped by her pheromones, and reinforced by your own conscious actions. A beta male should be terrified of pussy and obsessed with the shoe. Thoughts of inappropriate behavior with a woman are disrespectful and it is absolutely not your place to be having out of control thoughts like that. Your role as a beta loser and reject is to ensure your wife/gf/crush never has to put up with you, and that all of her needs and conditions are met so that she can live her best life, at peace and away from losers
Being a beta loser, my wife's boyfriend is the only one that gets all the fun. I've grown to be terrified at the mere thought about pussy. Pussy is definitely not for losers. A loser would only disappoint a woman with their ridiculous 'effort' and leave her extremely frustrated and unsatisfied. If you're a loser and miraculously in some form of relationship with a woman, you owe it to her to have 'the talk'. Sit her down and beg her to deny you all sex moving forward. Beg her to date other men. Real men. It'll change her life (and yours) forever and for the better. Do her a favor and become the sexless loser you were born to be. Let all your worries and performance anxieties fade away as she moves on to the bliss of being with another better equipped man. She will appreciate that you took the time to enlighten her to the world of good sex that awaits her
When you're a loser and a beta, reciting daily mantras out loud can be extremely empowering and helpful, particularly when you're mindset is still on the fence and you're trying to get over the hump. Daily mantras spoke aloud are a powerful way to ensure that you reach your goal of full acceptance and become proud of who and what you are. I highly recommend choosing any number of these and personalizing them and making sure you say them and remind yourself several times a day out loud. Before long you'll be living your best beta loser life
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