The more my wife helped me to understand that I am a loser and incapable of ever satisfying her the more I have come to appreciated being downgraded. Downgrading me to my rightful status was very considerate and loving of her. I had been a chronic disappointment for a long while. How she tolerated my feeble attempts for so long is nothing short of a miracle. Nowadays even the mere thought of having to have sex with any woman fills me entirely with anxiety, panic and fear. Sex is not for losers. I urge all losers to rid themselves of that last ounce of pride you're stubbornly clinging too and be completely pussy free. Embrace who you were meant to be. Embrace the reality that you will always be a sexual failure and nothing more. This is your rightful place in life. Denied. Rejected. Looked down upon. Leave the sex to real men and women. It'll make you much happier ❤️
When your wife first told you that she and her boyfriend had decided that she would friendzone you, you though it meant losing her completely. So you actually feel a sense of relief now that you know what she really means by that.
Shoe cleaning is never seen as a punishment by an enlightened beta loser. This is the ultimate reward for all of your hard efforts. This Is an opportunity to show her how much you obsess and crush over her and a way to be intimate with her since she won't ever touch you. A beta loser with an opportunity like this laid before him knows what he has been given and approaches this task as if he's been given the gift of the best sex he'll ever have
This is such a huge part of my work on Tumblr...to help every beta loser not only better himself but to love and be at peace with who they are and that at its core is the acceptance that a loser was not born to fuck women. A loser was born to experience a lifetime of being entirely pussy free. A loser serves women, defers all decisions to women, makes himself useful even when rejected and laughed at. Nothing more nothing less. The world is genuinely better off with you staying out of the sexual pool
Not a single part of her attire is for your benefit...only her middle finger that shows you how little she thinks about you is for you. That's what a beta loser would call wife material ❤️
There is much truth to this. As a beta loser who lives cuckolding from a reality based perspective rather than a fantasy based perspective, I can identify with these statements about the likely changes that will occur in your relationship over time. Maybe this isn't entirely true in some relationships but it sure has been to a large degree in my own. Particularly the part where he now calls the shots for both my wife and I. Whatever he wants, he gets. Period. Be careful what you wish for as they say.
There is so much that is misunderstood about becoming a cuckold. Many husbands and boyfriends have a fantasy about their women having sex with another man - one who is more endowed, more masculine, and more assertive. But there is much more to cuckolding when it crosses from fantasy to reality.
Here is what you need to consider:
Sex between me and your wife is a very intimate act. If you think you can remove emotions from it, you’re deluding yourself. Your wife will have feelings for me, and I will have feelings for her.
You do not get to control the sex. That is between me and your wife or girlfriend. If we want to kiss (and we do), we will kiss; once you consent to me making love to your wife, it is out of your hands.
She will look at you and your relationship differently after she is with me. She will know and intimacy from another point of view, and she will forever compare you to me (sorry, friend, but you will likely come up short).
Your wife or girlfriend will want to continue to see me. You will be jealous. Are you going to deprive her? She will resent you.
Cuckolding is not only between me and your wife; it is also between me and you. I cannot speak for all in my situation, but I derive great pleasure from dominating you through your wife. I know you do too.
Still want me to have sex with your cute wife? Great. I look forward to a meaningful relationship with you both.
When you're a beta loser you may not be a man but you do have one trait in common and that's being a provider. While your role as provider certainly doesn't include anything sexual in nature, it is your responsibility to ensure your wife/gf/crush has everything she needs in life to make her own relationships and sexual encounters th best they can possibly be...with real men of course. Once you've provided this then the real man will do his own version of providing by keeping her happy and her pussy dripping with cum. So if your wife/gf/crush is going out and she says she wants the $1500 shoes, you buy her the $1500 shoes without a single moment of hesitation because you want her to be provided for....not only by yourself but especially by the real man she's going to wear them for. The golden rule for beta losers is that her happiness, no matter who or where she finds it, is your happiness. Your needs do not matter at all and should not factor into your behavior
Hi, I read some of your posts and I really liked reading it.
My gf wants to start cuckolding me. (Consensually) do you have any advice for first timers?
First off accept her desire to cuckold you entirely and never react negatively towards her regardless of what happens. If she wants to explore, you owe it to her to fully give in to that and allow her whatever she needs in order to make that happen...second, communicate and talk...then talk some more...and then talk even more on top of that. You may be surprised at what you learn not only about her but about yourself through all of this communication. I know I sure learned a great many things along the way...some more painful and difficult to accept but truths none the less. Personally I was and continue to be very appreciative for the honesty because it has allowed me to grow into what I truly am and has allowed me to find pure bliss and peace
When you're a beta loser, this is exactly the type of woman you should be obsessing over and looking to serve... She's doing you a tremendous favor by taking a he time to reject you and call you out on exactly what you are and what your role in life is ❤️
OMFG!!! I LOVE HER!!!
When you're a beta loser you know how stressful sex can be and you hear all of the inner voices. Whether you've tried in the past and inevitably failed or whether you're a virgin...you just aren't good enough and you'll never be good enough regardless of how hard you fight this fact. Your dicklette is small or maybe it just looks gross, you cum way too fast, you have zero clue how to give women an orgasm or how she needs to be touched...it can be all of these or just a combination of these things. Bottom line is that even thinking about pussy is stressful and terrifying. Once you've come to terms with who and what you are you accept that these stressful feelings you have when it comes to sex with a woman exist to warn you and remind you that sex is not for you. Sex is for the many real men out there that don't have these same problems that losers do. It's their job to make your wife/gf/crush melt and tremble with endless pleasure. It is not your job. It's your job to support her in having amazing sex with better men. The end of the year is upon us. It's your responsibility to sit your wife/gf/crush down and let her know that you actually never want to have sex with her again (or ever if you haven't had sex) but that you'd strongly prefer she not ever look at you as a sexual being and instead you'd rather she pour all of her attentions into hot men that love sex and fucking...let her know that 100% permanent denial is all you ask of her...and in return you'll do everything she needs done to give her more time with other men...be it work, or chores or errands or buying her sexy things that are exclusively worn for other men. Tell her this is what would make you the most happy in your own life...
Now that your wives/gf's/crushes are gone for the night with their friends to party with other alphas and get laid and have the time of their lives, there's no need for you to waste the night entirely...
After my blog got deleted by Tumblr randomly I'm back! I love all things beta. I live it in my real day to day life and enjoy supporting others in their own journey to true beta loser enlightenment!
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