Trauma didn't make me nice, I consciously made me nice because I don't want anyone else to suffer like I did. Trauma didn't make me strong, I made me strong. Don't you dare ever tell me my trauma made me anything but scared, broken, and confused. Don't give credit to the abusers for me being a good person. They didn't make me good, I made myself good.
Hey, Tumblr. Guess what. Relationships are defined by the people involved in them, and that's that. If people say they're friends, then they're friends. If people say they're dating, then they're dating. If they say it's a secret third thing, then that's what it is. Someone else's relationship isn't for you to decide.
“If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing you can be.”
— Maya Angelou
If you’re suffering from depression and are looking for a sign to not go through with ending your life, this is it. This is the sign. We care.
If you see this on your dash, reblog it. You could save a life.
“Maturity is learning to walk away from people and situations that threaten your peace of mind, self-respect, values, morals and self worth.”
— Unknown
your value does not decrease just because someone fails to see your worth
“We just got to accept that some people can only be in our hearts, not in our lives.”
— Kathy B.
“Try not to feel jealous about things, or other people and what they have. It will make you bitter and kill you inside. Just keep living, and find your own path, and one day you’ll discover your own happiness.”
— Unknown
As an adult you must cultivate the skill of “Gross! Oh, well. Not my business.”