Maybe A Hot Take Or Uncontroversial Opinion But I Wouldn't Date A Girl Who Wears Makeup. I Wanna See

if you’re going to make these assumptions that non-asexual people are “sex-happy,” have sex frequently or at all, have uncomplicated relationships to sex, are sexually attracted to strangers or other people they don’t have a strong bond with, etc., then you have to accept that there are TONS of people who fit your definition of asexual who are not part of any identifiable asexual community, who may not ever identify as asexual, who do not necessarily agree with any theories, politics, or systems of identification developed by asexual communities, but whose feelings and ways of relating to sexuality are just as valid as yours, and you have no way of knowing who they are. and when you assume that someone must not be one of these people, must embody every expectation you have about non-asexual people, solely because they do not identify as asexual, you are making very invasive and inappropriate assumptions about another person’s personal, private sexual feelings and that is not okay. and in particular when you do this to lgbt people, women, people of color, and especially people at the intersections of those groups, you are reinforcing ideas about their relationships to sexuality that play a significant role in their oppression.

This is the Lucky Ace. Reblog to recieve a wad of cash that is oddly specific to your current needs.

Watching women fight in MMA is always slightly ridiculous when you know any average male fighter would wipe the floor with them in seconds.

I bought this wood sign (that I dressed up for this picture, of course! lol) a few years ago, and it definitely feels like it has a "Teachings of the Daughter" vibe to me, now that I know Her and have Her in my heart. I keep it on the altar in the living room so I can see it every day and feel Her speaking to me and giving me Her words of wisdom.

The Light of Our Mother surrounds us,

The Love of Her Daughter enfolds us,

The Power and Presence of the Seven Janyati watches over and protects us,

Wherever we are, She is,

And wherever She is, all is well.

Amadéa.

Apollonia Saintclair

Full Moon Fever

buy yourselves a cheap calendar and a red pen I guess. Only safe way to do it with these vultures everywhere.

You know any period tracking apps that don’t refer to us in dehumanizing ways?

I used to use the SimpleInnovation Cycle Tracker, but I stopped like 2 years ago so I don’t know if they’ve changed their lingo since. I think the logo is still a feminine facial silhouette, but I don’t remember if it ever says “woman” or “menstruator” or what

anyone got any recommendations?

The confusion here is the primary vs the general. MAIL IN VOTES FOR BERNIE IN THE PRIMARY. This gives bernie more delegates and shows we want his policies, it pushes the party left. However since he probably won’t get the nomination our only (real) options are biden and trump in the general election. At the general stage, it will vary wildly state to state who has the political flexiblity to throw their vote away in protest. Due to the electoral college fuckery.(Google it for details.)  Florida? Hell no, bite the bullet vote for biden. Alabama? Yeah thats not going blue anytime soon, vote for the green party or write in bernie if you want. Show them what you actually want! (worth googling what states went blue in 2008, if the obama theory holds up) Staying silent and not voting however helps noone, in any state.

Okay Bernie stans.

I need you all to prepare yourselves to vote for Biden in November.  

I’m not happy about it either.  I wanted Elizabeth Warren to destroy Trump on the debate floor.  I wanted to watch her shatter the glass ceiling.  I wanted student loan forgiveness, Medicare for All, and refugee and immigrant protections.

But I’m not going to get that.  So I am going all in for Biden.

This can no longer be a matter of “well if I don’t get my way THEN I’M NOT VOTING”.  I’d hoped you all learned your lessons four years ago, but from what I’ve seen on social media, that’s not been the case.  Biden is not ideal but he is better than the alternative.  He is a Democrat who will continue Obama’s legacy.  And you have a shot in hell of getting progressive movements like Medicare for All under a blue majority Congress; we do not have that under Trump.  

Biden is more willing to listen to the progressive factions of the Democrat party than Trump is.  We will get shit done under him.    

We cannot survive a second term of Trump.  I need you all to hold your noses, put on your big girl pants, and deal with it.  Prepare to vote for Biden.

And when we DO call men ‘boys’ it’s usually to let them not take responsibility ie, “boys will be boys”

When you call a woman a “girl”, you reinforce the infantilization of women as helpless, irrational, weak beings in need of protection. A diminutive term, “girl” denies a woman her adulthood, her maturity and her power. Notice the frequency in which we call men “men” or “guys” but call women “girls”. This is no coincidence. This use of language is rooted in sexism and it is disrespectful, patronizing and disempowering. A woman is not a female child. Stop calling women “girls”.