The newest recruit always has the most to learn. It is part of the other boys duties to teach them. The advice comes think and fast:
Don't be proud. Don't assert yourself. Don't question anything. Don't think you're special. Don't expect attention. Don't express any opinions. Don't speak unless spoken to.
Do be absolutely submissive. Do conform. Do obey every single order. Do exactly what we do. Do treat Sir as your idol. Do abandon any notions of 'self'. Do feel grateful. Do give everything. Do realise that you exist only to serve.
The boy listened carefully and took the advice. This was how he wanted his life to be now. He wanted to be one of the boys.
You can try to fight it, ignore it, or bury it under what the world tells you should be, but deep down, you know the truth. It calls to you in the quiet moments, in the way your body responds to command, in the deep longing that never fades. The more you resist, the more you struggle. The more you accept, the more you thrive.
Submission is not about weakness. It is not about giving up or giving in—it is about becoming. True strength is found in surrender, in the ability to let go of control and embrace the power of service. It is in devotion, in discipline, in the unwavering commitment to something greater than yourself. There is no shame in obedience, only freedom. There is no loss in kneeling, only purpose.
You were not meant to battle your nature. You were not meant to resist the very thing that brings you peace. The moment you stop fighting, the moment you truly surrender, everything becomes clear. You step into what you were always meant to be—whole, fulfilled, and at peace.
Let go of the struggle. Release the doubt. Accept what you are. Serve with your whole heart, obey with your whole soul, and surrender with everything you have. Only then will you truly be free.
The other guys all wore sweats and urged him to be like them.
He didn't want to be like them though. He wanted to be different.
He chose to stand apart.
As he did, he found himself growing into the person he knew he wanted to be.
-Ordering for your sub at a restaurant
-Choosing sub’s outfit for the day
-Giving a bedtime
-Corporal punishment for bad behavior
-Instructing the submissive to write your name somewhere on their body daily
-Training sub with non-verbal cues
-verbal cues to correct unwanted behavior in public
-sub must be at a certain distance & position when in public
-Training sub how to greet you(on call/in person)
-Sub must wear a collar/necklace w/your name/title on it
-Scheduling hypnosis time
-Choosing and/or putting sub’s shoes on for them
-sub must ask permission before speaking
-sub must ask permission before entering/exiting a room(could be in public, a designated play/comfort room, at home, etc)
-Sub may only sit on the floor, on a cushion, in a designated chair
-Scheduling exercise time for sub
-Scheduled chore time
-Controlling their alcohol intake(when they can get drunk, if they can’t get drunk, cutting them off)
-Monitoring water intake
-monitoring screen/phone time
-Monitoring a submissive's outfits while out
-scheduling a time daily/weekly for sub to sit on their knees in silence, repeating a predetermined mantra
-Instructing sub to complete scheduled chores in a required uniform
-serving Dominant drinks/food
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Let's add some more in the reblogs...
This self-assessment will determine your rightful place within the hierarchy. Answer honestly—true clarity comes only from self-awareness.
For each statement, respond with:
✅ Yes = 3 points
🟡 Sometimes = 2 points
❌ No = 1 point
At the end, total your points to reveal your classification.
1. I instinctively follow commands without hesitation.
2. I find deep satisfaction in obedience and structure.
3. Serving and pleasing are my natural state of being.
4. I need authority to give me direction and purpose.
5. Being disciplined and corrected makes me feel secure.
6. I recognize that submission is not a choice but my true nature.
7. I do not need personal identity outside of my role.
8. My existence is validated through recognition of my place in the hierarchy.
9. I feel most complete when defined and categorized by another.
10. I do not question my classification—I embrace it fully.
11. I accept that training and discipline are essential to my development.
12. I welcome refinement and correction to perfect my role.
13. The idea of being conditioned excites me.
14. I understand that I exist to be shaped by a superior force.
15. I strive to internalize obedience to the point that it becomes instinct.
16. I understand that submission exists in different degrees.
17. I accept that my classification is not about preference but about what I am.
18. I respect and honor those ranked above me.
19. I strive to embody the standards of my designated place in the hierarchy.
20. I am ready to prove my classification whenever required.
⚪ 0 - 19 Points → Unclassified / Not Yet Defined
You have not yet fully embraced your nature. You may still be resisting or failing to understand where you truly belong. Further training and self-reflection are required before you can be placed within the hierarchy.
🟢 20 - 29 Points → Good Boy
A devoted and eager servant, obedient and well-behaved, but still developing. You crave guidance and thrive under structure.
🔵 30 - 39 Points → Son Good Boy
You have progressed beyond basic obedience, embracing discipline as a core part of your existence. You are becoming a reflection of what is expected of you.
🟣 40 - 49 Points → Son Good Boy Faggot
Your submission is not only deep-rooted but instinctive. You understand that your existence is defined entirely by the hierarchy, and you embrace it fully.
🟡 50 - 54 Points → Good Boy Faggot
You are not just obedient—you have accepted that your identity is fundamentally subservient. You crave being shaped, used, and molded as a possession.
🔴 55 - 60 Points → Faggot
You have reached the highest form of submission. You no longer see yourself as an individual but as an instrument to be used at will. You exist solely for service and validation through obedience.
📌 Reblog with your classification and reflect on whether it aligns with how you see yourself.
📌 If your score is below 40, consider how you can deepen your commitment to your role.
📌 If you scored 50 or higher, you are already on the correct path—embrace it.