Obedience Isn’t Conditional. It’s Not About When You Feel Like It Or When It’s Easy. True Submission

Stepford Gentleman's list of nonsexual forms of domination for dominants

-Ordering for your sub at a restaurant

-Choosing sub’s outfit for the day

-Giving a bedtime

-Corporal punishment for bad behavior

-Instructing the submissive to write your name somewhere on their body daily

-Training sub with non-verbal cues

-verbal cues to correct unwanted behavior in public

-sub must be at a certain distance & position when in public

-Training sub how to greet you(on call/in person)

-Sub must wear a collar/necklace w/your name/title on it

-Scheduling hypnosis time

-Choosing and/or putting sub’s shoes on for them

-sub must ask permission before speaking

-sub must ask permission before entering/exiting a room(could be in public, a designated play/comfort room, at home, etc)

-Sub may only sit on the floor, on a cushion, in a designated chair

-Scheduling exercise time for sub

-Scheduled chore time

-Controlling their alcohol intake(when they can get drunk, if they can’t get drunk, cutting them off)

-Monitoring water intake

-monitoring screen/phone time

-Monitoring a submissive's outfits while out

-scheduling a time daily/weekly for sub to sit on their knees in silence, repeating a predetermined mantra

-Instructing sub to complete scheduled chores in a required uniform

-serving Dominant drinks/food

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Let's add some more in the reblogs...

You obey! No hesitation, no resistance - just absolute submission. That is your place. That is your purpose.

Princeton, 1962

He couldn’t believe it. He had shown up to campus ready to party, his long hair blowing in the wind, his jeans ripped, and his sneakers scuffed. But something had happened during his meeting with his advisor. The man was… very persuasive about the freshman’s future academic career.

He showed up to his first class a completely changed man: a respectable man. His long flowing locks had been shorn into a strict horseshoe flattop. His casual clothing had been replaced with a closet full of starched short sleeve white shirts, black pleated slacks, ties, and white briefs. Inside each article of clothing was a tag with the day of the week so he knew what to wear each day. And everything was perfectly complemented with a pair of brightly shined penny loafers. To his classmates, he was anything but the freewheeling party dude he had arrived on campus as. They viewed him as a bit of a square, a fuddy duddy even!

The craziest part? He loves it. He loves how restricted and controlled he feels. He loves how short his hair has become. He loves never having to think about what to wear and just accepting his daily outfit. When he showed up to class, he was shocked to see his academic advisor had switched his major from music to classics but now he can’t think of anything better than studying Greek and Latin and translating the Ovid. Heck, he turns down weekend plans so he can spend more time at the library, properly dressed and studying like the hardworking man he is.

He would have told you just a few weeks ago that he was the ultimate rebel. Now? He’s the ultimate conformist and happier than he’s ever been. He will dress, groom, and act this way for the rest of his life because he knows it is proper. And he hopes you will join him.

In fact, he knows you will.

Friendly advice from one boy to another.

The newest recruit always has the most to learn. It is part of the other boys duties to teach them. The advice comes think and fast:

Don't be proud. Don't assert yourself. Don't question anything. Don't think you're special. Don't expect attention. Don't express any opinions. Don't speak unless spoken to.

Do be absolutely submissive. Do conform. Do obey every single order. Do exactly what we do. Do treat Sir as your idol. Do abandon any notions of 'self'. Do feel grateful. Do give everything. Do realise that you exist only to serve.

The boy listened carefully and took the advice. This was how he wanted his life to be now. He wanted to be one of the boys.

5 key interview questions.

Are you always striving to be obedient?

Do you agree with the need for discipline and correction?

Does the idea of total submission appeal to you?

Are you prepared to be suited every single day?

Have you dreamed about being owned?

If you had to hesitate before answering any of these, you are not yet ready to serve.