The Fact That Walls Get Dusty Is Ridiculous. You're Vertical. Act Like It.

Can you tie me up please?

“how can you vote for the democrats as a principled socialist/communist/anarchist/whatever the fuck” Well the opposition wants to make it illegal for me to piss in a public bathroom, and voting takes like 20 minutes, so

From a session with @pixseabait and adorgeous from last year

In rope negotiations, talk about how long it will take to untie and make sure you’re both aware of how you’ll communicate when you want to untie! A red/yellow/green stoplight checkin system can be great. A nonverbal method of communicating this is an important backup.

Your safety shears should always be nearby too. Being in rope for any longer than you want can be scary and dangerous. Untie as soon as the limit is approaching, and never be scared to cut rope if you need to!

Riggers, make sure your bunny knows they can indicate when they’re wearing out, instead of waiting until they reach a limit.

Rope bunnies, get comfortable identifying that feeling and communicating it! A trustworthy rope top will never pressure you to stay in rope for more time than you are comfortable. (Even if they can’t finish the tie. Even if they’re taking pictures and are interrupted. Even if you’re in a scene). You deserve to have pleasant experiences in rope!

Play safely :-)

for my followers in the states—please vote. “boycotting” an election is not a viable strategy to enact any meaningful change besides clearing the way for some truly horrific people to get into positions of power. we know how bad it got last time. now imagine the sheer damage that could be done now with a precedent.