sometimes being a system is like having a twitch chat in your brain but sometimes its like banging your head against the wall in the dark to find a switch that will send a working-but-very-dim bat signal to the other side of the world and just praying they’ll see it and understand
protector culture is being so used to protecting the host that as we get better and better you start fearing you won't be needed anymore, even if everyone in the system still says they love you and that you matter beyond your role
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Looking up pictures of soup, call those stock images
I don’t know what trans guy needs to hear this but please break up and cut off with that person trying to convince you not to transition. They don’t care about your happiness.
Go get that masculine hair cut. Change your wardrobe. Go on T. Get top and/or bottom surgery. Do what makes you happy, and don’t let anyone try to tell you their comfort matters more then your happiness.
is your system a council or a twitch chat
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Caretaker culture is aggressive caretakers sitting there, arms crossed and glaring at whoever's refusing help in front like 'you really gonna tell me you dont need assistance rn. really.'
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