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My holy cards came in today! They look lovely under the sun ୨୧

Feminine goals for 2024

Giving my heart completely to God. Both in intentions and in actions

Being more organized at home

Finding time for a creative hobby (like ballet, painting, singing or piano)

Learning how to cook new recipes

Taking care of my hair, body and skin - taking care, not just masking problems

Having a more attentive look to my family and friendships

Growing my patience and amiability, letting go of anger and reactivity

Give my best every day, living less on the automatic and more with my heart

What other goals would you add to your journey?

Compliment your spouse

Express love and appreciation towards your spouse

Brag to others about your spouse

Write love letters

Build security

Take the burden off your spouse

Pamper your spouse

Spent undivided attention to your spouse

Plan date nights

Start a hobby together

Empathically and actively listen to your spouse

Long hugs

Gentle kisses

Massages

Hold hands frequently

Make behaviour changes that come up after conflict

The 3 pillars of femininity- nourish, edify and beautify

Nourishing:

The essence of femininity. Providing the conditions so that people can live well. The woman provides what is essential for life to be born and to continue its natural flow. She does this for her children, her husband, her friends and everyone around her. This is the nature of women, human beings are only born after being nourished by a woman during pregnancy. And it is this same nutritious essence that provides the essentials for life to continue at its best. A woman connected with her femininity will make her presence be exactly that to those around her. She is the means for life to flow naturally, she is the guarantee that everyone has a firm rearguard to return to. She nurtures by creating an environment of love and peace for her husband, children and friends. She nourishes by being that point of light in the middle of the darkness. She does this through words of affirmation that uplift, through physical touch that reaffirms love and renews emotional bonds, thoughtful acts of service that make life easier for the whole.

Edifying:

Creating the conditions so that people can live better. While nurturing is giving enough for life, edifying is more than that. It's leading to virtue, it's leading people to their most dignified and highest potential. And this is also a woman's nature. For this reason, it is possible to say that yes, the human being is only born through a woman, but more than that, the human being only reaches its best version through a woman. It is this same edifying essence that sees the potential and prepares the way, points the direction and provides the tools so that this potential can happen. The woman does this by establishing a routine that works and allows everyone to develop intellectually, emotionally and spiritually. The woman does this by being completeness, peace, and an encouragement to do what is right for the man. A woman does this when, through small actions, she sees the formation of a great character in the future. But can you understand that you can only edify, think of the future when people are nourished? For example if a child is starving, will you worry about forming great virtues on them or the first thing you will do is make sure they doesn' suffer from hunger? In relationships, in financial life it's the same thing. A woman won't think of marriage if the dating is not going well. Before you can build the people around you, you need to learn how to nurture them.

Beautify:

The prettiest and most feminine of all. The third pillar. Beautifying is seeking to make everything around you perfect, including yourself. The feminine points the direction of that which is harmonious, ordered and perfect. In other words, a woman beautifies when she makes everything around her become a living reminder of her creator. And it is impossible to do this before nourishing and building.