If This Aint America Right Now

can you imagine someone loving you for who you are and it being effortless and natural and you not constantly having to hide who you are from them and being safe around them and not posturing or lying so they’ll like you can you imagine

For some reason, I randomly remembered that time last year when people were putting acrylic nails on the Avengers and I lost my shit. 

I mean…

It’s perfect

It never fails to make me laugh

So simple yet so good

Masterpieces

All of them are perfection

I can’t stop stop laughing

The editing is superb 

The poses are perfect

We can’t forget the person who started it all, and they deserve the best for the wonderful gifts they gave us.

Thank you Nicole. Thank you so much.

leftist antisemites are really everywhere on this hellsite making & reblogging their posts like “the Jews have too much power and privilege and actually their very recent genocide was not that bad compared to what my group experiences and antisemitism doesn’t even exist in my country and especially not in liberal spaces”

Look, the act of self love ain’t never been no easy thing — especially when you’re experiencing copious amounts of scarcity, shame, disenfranchisement, or loss. Otherwise, there wouldn’t be a 10 billion dollar skin-lightening industry in countries where the world’s darkest people reside. Forty-two percent of voting women wouldn’t have voted for Donald Trump (an anti-choice, anti-union, anti-poor, pro-war, sexual harassment enthusiast).

And I, processing yet another anguishing break-up with someone who’s made it overtly and painfully clear that they no longer want anything to do with me, would be focusing more on healing, pursuing my goals, and moving through grief, rather than spending my days staring at his facebook page, miserably pining for his affection and attention, and desperately reaching out to him even when I know better.

That’s not to say that folks who use skin bleaching cream or vote for fascists don’t feel love for themselves. And I’ll put it on all that’s holy and sacred that I love and treasure every ounce and texture of my tender, sensitive, butter-cup of a heart. (Read more via We All F*ck Up: The Importance of Loving Yourself Even When You Disappoint Yourself)

Trans Black girls who need love

The Black girls who u refuse to reblog are still valid and still matter.

Size 20 Black girls Scene/alternative/nerdy Black girls Black girls with acne or scarring Dark skinned Black girls who aren’t fuckable to u Monoracial Black girls with Black features Disabled Black girls Black girls who say “fuck respectability politics” Black girls with 4c natural hair Black girls who critique the Black community and the damage it has done to us.. Etc…

Like. Black girls matter whether you like us or not.

TRANS MERCY!!!!

TRANS MERCY

Trans Mercy

trans mercy

t r a n s m e r c y

Do it Blizzard.

So I wanted to set the record straight because this has been such a nightmare. A few days ago I reached out to tumblr user Ladynepthyss after seeing she had made a post about hot girl summer again.  My intention wasn’t to be mean to her or rude to her, but to validate her feelings and her experiences, and talk to her about why people were upset.

Through our conversation she claimed that she wanted to learn, and as I result I sat there and educated her. It seemed like she actually was paying attention to what I was saying. 

Since I attempted to be kind to her, I have been lied about and she has been stalking my blog, and not only that, has targeted other black bloggers. 

I think what devastates me about this is that I saw her hurting, and as someone who’s been in her shoes, I extend my kindness to her, and she literally spit it in my face. That’s just honestly heart breaking. I’ve done nothing unkind or mean to her, yet she’s used this as an oppurtunity to attack my character. 

It gets under my skin because I validated her and listented to her as a black woman, and as a result she has spread lies about me. 

And if you are reading this Ophelia, I’m sorry that my kindness offended you. I’m sorry that me taking the steps to work with you and validate you have offended you. I’m sorry i ever tried to be kind to you. 

I thought I did see myself in you, but I don’t stab people in the back. 

That said, if you are coming here due to one of her various callouts: 

Keep reading

she’s an amazing person please help her!!! 

um, hello! i need a laptop for university which starts in a month and have no funds, nor am i allowed to work being from a south-asian family. i would literally appreciate anything, otherwise my entire future education is at stake. please.

paypal: 3tmilky@gmail.com

Care to debate abortion?

Nah