So Tonight, You Try It. Try It And See How It Works, Not If It Works. Because Not "I'll Think About It";

if you have time to worry, you have time to relax.

doubting, worrying and spiralling lead you to nothing BUT it feels productive as you are doing it because it feels like you are protecting yourself from danger.

doubting is you trying to protect yourself from disappointment. worrying is you trying to predict all future dangers so you can avoid them. spiralling is you just giving into fear.

doubting, worrying and spiralling are all just THOUGHTS. that is what they are. if you learn how to step back and OBSERVE thoughts rather than BECOMING them, you will be free.

if you learn how to watch your thoughts from a healthy detached position, you will no longer be a slave to them.

if you have time to sit and spiral, you have time to learn how to observe. when you observe, your thoughts will naturally dissolve and make way for inner peace.

people won't want to do this because thinking is ADDICTIVE. like an addiction to social media, an addiction to thinking is exactly the same. it's such a normalised addiction though that people don't even notice it. it might not feel easy to break this addiction but it's so worth it.

༉‧₊˚🕯️🖤❀༉‧₊˚ It’s normal for me to not struggle to get what i want. It’s normal for me to only experience the good in life. I don’t conform to people repeatedly saying that “good things don’t last forever” because yes it fucking does! I’m safe and protected and my desires are with me forever. I never go through hardships because I’m privileged and lucky— it’s always been that way and that’s what i’ve always known. What i say goes, because i’m in charge of what happens in my life. I take control in every aspect of my life. I’m confident in the fact that things are always working out for me. I trust myself and my power to manifest things instantly and out of thin air. I always win and I don’t know what failure feels like. I’m surrounded by a supportive community and i’m always in a safe space, that’s just how it is for me. My desires arrive before a doubt could even arise. Actually— i’ve never even doubted myself because i’m just that powerful! I’m never affected by shit other people say because why the hell would i when i know my worth and what I’m capable of? People literally love me and they look up to me. They treat me as if i’m a blessing on earth and i am. I am meant for bigger things in life, it’s my destiny. I am meant for more and i’m not afraid to admit it out loud. I’m meant to be successful no matter what. I’m not ashamed of my desires and dreams. I’m not afraid of anything because i know everything is going according as i’ve intended it to. Isn’t it fucking amazing to be me? Isn’t it just wonderful how i’m living a perfect life? I’m so grateful to be me, living a life filled with miracles and i just never get tired of it. I sleep soundly knowing that i have everything that i want. I wake up refreshed and excited to go out my day. My life is really exciting and it feels like heaven! Everything that happens in my life goes as i’ve expected it to— filled with perfection, and happiness. I will always be in this state, i am permanently in this state because i fucking deserve it. I deserve great things and i know it in my heart and soul. All of my wishes are fulfilled— end of conversation. ･:*:｡･:*:･ﾟ✧*。

newcomers pls read

so i have a mildly popular “reblog and put in in the tags” post going around and its. very clear how many people don’t know how to interact with a tumblr post

so, first of all, tumblr’s culture has changed a lot in the past couple years. there’s a genuine community effort to not start any drama, and ironically a lot of the current hostility is an effort to keep things calm. there’s also a change in how people interact with posts, so if you haven’t been here in a while please skip down to the tags/replies/reblog with text section.

for newcomers: you should be reblogging posts about as liberally as you would like something on twitter. if your blog is only personal posts and you only interact with other content by liking it, people will think you are rude/a bot. you’ve probably heard people talk about “cultivating your dash,” and thats because this platform is 100% centered around your dashboard. trending matters less, unfollowing and blocking in order to shape your dash into it’s best form is widely accepted, the majority of the content you’ll find and interact with will be because of your dash, and the only way to put things on your dash is to reblog them. tumblr users are deeply distrustful of algorithms and have largely turned off the “see posts your friends have liked” function (i recommend you also turn of the various algorithms in settings → general settings → dashboard preferences).

so, once you’ve reblogged a post, there’s three ways to add content to it. the tags, replies, and reblogging with text. all of them have different connotations

the tags: an inside voice. originally they were meant for organizing your blog (and they’re still used for this), but they’ve also morphed into a way to share thoughts that aren’t funny/insightful enough for non-followers to be interested in. when in doubt, put your comment in the tags

replies: basically talking to your friends in class. your followers have no way of finding your replies (they don’t pop up on the dash, nobody gets notified except for the original poster) so chances are, only the person who made the post is gonna see your comment. it’s for quick one-offs that you’re okay with other people overhearing, but really is only made for one person. they’re like a public dm

reblog with text: an outside voice. you’re getting up on a stage in town square and entertaining people. make sure it’s funny or insightful— bottom line, add something new to the conversation. you should use this the least

general rules of thumb: 

when in doubt, reblog.  

the only things people will judge you for reblogging are personal vent posts. leave a like to give a little virtual hug

if a post is asking about your personality/opinions (i.e: tell me what’s the last tv show you watched, that kind of thing) put it in the tags 

also if you see a nice edit, gifset, or art, reblog and say something nice in the tags! it’s that nice sweet spot of common enough that no one will notice but uncommon enough to make the artist’s day

i am begging you all to stop treating this site like instagram if you dont want it to be content free by next year

ok I know this is a basic concept but I finally understood it for real so I'm gonna explain it with my words: why is there no difference between reality and imagination? and why have I already experienced something even if not in the 3D?

We all know I Am Awareness. pure consciousness. all that. we are not the ego. I am the experiencer. that means, whatever I am aware of is "real", exists, and I have experienced it. what makes things exist is having a witness. awareness gives life to things. without awareness, things disappear(by that I mean being aware of something, because awareness is the only thing that exists by itself, infinite). so, if awareness is the condition for existence(of things, not yourself), everything I am aware of exists. now, we think we are the ego, existing in a 3D world. for the ego, that's reality. so imagination, dreams, those aren't real for the ego. but the truth is, the Self is experiencing everything. we think what's real is what the ego is experiencing, but if I Am the Self, I am experiencing the ego's reality, imagination, dreams.... everything I Am aware of is my experience. not simply what the ego is experiencing. so when you imagine the perfect relationship, even if you imagine the ego, or if you imagine completely different people in the relationship, that's still you experiencing a relationship. but because you identify with the ego, you think "that's not me, that's fake," when it's already real because the requirement for "realness" is awareness, and by imagining it, you are being aware of it.

to sum it up, it doesn't matter if the ego hasn't experienced it "in the 3D". you have, because you are awareness and you are aware of the thing "you"(the ego) want.

HES BACK 😭😭😭

Uh… Here’s some crabs 🤣

We’ve got your basic crab, a Halloween crab, and two spycrabs!!! Use at your leisure! (I might remove the text and make these guys into stickers at some point idk)

Being delusional and getting everything 🕸

How to be delusional when I don't feel or believe it?

🕷 ONCE AGAIN I AM HERE TO REMIND YOU THAT YOU DON'T NEED TO FEEL OR BELIEVE YOUR AFFIRMATIONS OR VISUALIZATIONS. You just simply gotta affirm and persist in the fact you created.

Make everything delusional

🕷Literally do this. Whenever something undesirable stuffs happens in your reality affirm against it. Repetition of any kinda thoughts have to come to your reality if you got the intention.

Don't react and affirm consistently

🕷 "Don't react" Doesn't mean that you have to completely ignore the reality. You can check the 3d if you want, I am not asking you to do "not to see the mirror" method or any shits. I am just simply asking you to repeat your affirmations and don't give a fuck to the circumstances

Affirmations for y'all hotties

🕷I always end up getting all my desires within seconds

🕷I don't need to spend even a small amount of energy to get my desires

🕷I am always filled with happiness as everything works out exactly like how I wanted

🕷All of my desires are meant for me and they all are inevitable.

🕷I am God. I am the creator of this reality.

🕷I am completely unbothered about any circumstances.

- Softy’s Guide to Acids -

Different Acids & what they’re good for

The Most Common:

Salicylic Acid – acne!!! But veryyyyy drying so if you have dry skin and acne be very careful (only spot treat) or use a gentler acid

Glycolic Acid – brightening, smoothing, lightening pigmentation, helps with fine lines, treats acne; pretty much good for most skin types

Hyaluronic Acid – moisture moisture moisture! Soft, plump skin – helps strengthen & protect the skin’s moisture barrier

Lactic Acid – v. gentle, good for those with dry & sensitive skin (has a moisturizing element because it’s derived from milk)

Ascorbic Acid – aka Vitamin C! Great for fine lines and brightening

Other less common acids:

Azelaic Acid – most commonly found in prescribed skin care treatments, good for inflammation, redness & bacterial acne

Citric Acid – antioxidant; good for those with who have early signs of aging and sun spots

Kojic Acid – a skin lightening agent that can often be very irritating

Linoleic Acid – a lighter version of Oleic acid, so its a much better moisturizer for people with oily skin

Lipolic Acid – a “universal antioxidant”, anti-aging, fights free-radicals

Malic Acid – gentle & good for clearing acne – so if you have acne-prone skin that’s too dry for salicylic acid, try this

Mandelic Acid – has the largest molecule of all AHAs meaning it penerates the skin slower so its suuuuuuper good for people with sensitive skin

Oleic Acid – a fatty acid found in oils like argan, and olive oil, creates a moisturizing seal, might be too moisturizing for people who don’t have dry skin

Tartaric Acid – smoothes skin texture

*DISCLAIMER : alwaysss patch test when trying a new product/acid because you don’t know how your skin will react – also, only try one new product at a time so you know exactly what product is giving you which reaction/result!

the fact that i’m not on twitter but these posts are keeping me up to date is just amazing 😂

starting a collection