Me,every minor inconvenience:
i love this community and all, but the ‘tough love’ posts are getting a little much.
no, it’s not weak of me to say so. it’s not weak of me to say that people can be guided and advised without having someone call them a ‘dumb b*tch’ in a post. like, excuse me? who the fuck do you think you’re talking to?
surely, being insulted for ‘not being able to manifest’ or ‘not being able to go into the void state’ just creates further self-doubt and anxiety??
(by the way, you can manifest and you can go into the void state just fine! you don’t need a toxic b*tch on tumblr to insult you for your struggles.)
can we all just be kind to each other? there’s a difference between tough love and being rude and insensitive. let’s keep it classy. let’s keep it cute.
with love,
winnie 💗🪽
when i have issues in this reality but i remember that im a shifter and can literally shift
i genuinely cannot believe that this reality is real… none of my drs are perfect but wtf is going on guys 😭
✵ UNDERSTANDING THE FEAR. The fear of actually shifting to your DR is such a sneaky block because it’s not something we expect to feel. Like, you’re doing all this work (visualizing, affirming, scripting, etc) and yet deep down, you might be scared of actually getting what you want. It’s wild, but it makes sense when you break it down.
✵ WHY SUCCESS MIGHT FEEL SCARY.
— Even if you’ve visualized your DR a million times or planned your DR down to the last detail, but actually being there is a completely new experience. What’s it actually going to feel like to be there? What if things don’t go how you imagined? That uncertainty can trigger a lowkey (or not so lowkey) fear.
— Success comes with its own pressure. Once you shift, it’s easy to start overthinking. What if I can’t do it again? What if it’s not what I expected? That “what if” spiral can get overwhelming. And that might create a fear of succeeding.
— Even if you don’t love your CR, it’s still comfortable because it’s familiar. Leaving behind parts of it, even if it’s just for a short amount of time, (people, routines, or even just your identity in this reality) can feel heavier than you realize.
— What if your DR doesn’t live up to the dream? What if it’s not perfect? That fear can make success feel risky, and your brain might unconsciously try to avoid it altogether.
✵ HOW THIS FEAR MESSES WITH YOU. This fear doesn’t usually scream “I’m scared to succeed!” It shows up in subtle ways like procrastinating, feeling “stuck,” constantly tweaking your script, overthinking your method, or second-guessing yourself. It’s like your mind is putting up invisible walls without you even realizing it.
✵ WHY PEOPLE DON’T TALK ABOUT IT. This fear gets ignored because it feels backwards, like why would you be scared of getting what you want? Plus, in the shifting community, everyone’s so focused on HOW to shift, they don’t always talk about the emotional side of it. It’s easier to think you’re just “doing it wrong” than to realize you might be holding yourself back.
✵ HOW TO GET PAST IT.
— Acknowledge it. The first step is being honest with yourself. Ask, Am I scared of actually shifting to my DR? Once you see it for what it is, it’s easier to work through.
— Instead of obsessing over the moment you shift, think about how you’re going to feel and thrive once you’re there. Build that excitement so it outweighs the fear.
— Remind yourself you’ve got this. You’ve done the work, and you’re capable of handling whatever comes up in your DR. Affirmations like “I’m ready for this” or “I trust myself” really help.
— Your DR doesn’t have to be perfect for it to be worth experiencing. Give yourself room to explore and grow. Nothing has to be set in stone.
— Shifting doesn’t have to be some huge, dramatic moment. Every step (big or small) you take is progress, so don’t psych yourself out by making it feel bigger than it is.
✵ FINAL THOUGHTS. So yeah, fear of success is real, but it doesn’t have to stop you. The key is recognizing it for what it is and deciding it’s not going to hold you back. You’ve already done the hard part by getting this far, trust that you’re ready for what’s waiting on the other side.
How I Manifest in Detail
I discovered the Law of Assumption around October 2023. At first, I didn’t understand how the law worked. I ended up in an endless loop: affirming to get something, seeking validation from the outside, and then feeling demotivated because I saw no movement. This led me to overconsume information from tons of different coaches, repeating the same cycle over and over.
Then I asked myself: “Why waste time trying to change a mirror when the real reality is what’s inside of me?”
I stopped seeking validation from the 3D. I kept doing everything I needed to do in the 3D, but deep down in my heart, I knew my desires were already real in the 4D. I persisted in this belief: I already have what I want.
I stopped overconsuming content about the law because if I already have what I want, there’s no need to keep chasing it.
It happens. I’m human, and it’s normal. I take a deep breath and affirm to remind myself that I already have it. If I catch myself seeking validation from outside, I close my eyes and visualize.
If the 3D gets tough, here’s my advice: observe, don’t absorb. Don’t ignore your reality, but if you see something negative, remember that it’s already done. At first, it might feel uncomfortable or strange, but with persistence, it becomes so much easier.
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Hey guys. I am not very active on this blog but I got a few questions on how I shift now and instead of answering them all individually I though i would make a post. Without furthur ado....
Since I shifted for the first time, I have found that it has become much easier for me to shift. Nothing has changed, I haven't suddenly activated a gene that made it easier for me to shift, nothing has changed physically, I didn't manifest going back to a reality in which it was easier for me to shift. It was all a mental change. Your mindset and assumptions are the only thing that make you shift, nothing else
You do not need to do anything in the physical reality to induce a shift. It is all mental. Assume you have shifted and then run with that assumption. I am not telling you to ignore the 3d, make your life into a disaster and make decisions that'll harm you but you need to learn to become indifferent to the 3D. You CAN react to the 3D, just remove all power it holds over you. Remember its malleable and you are the one who molds it.
As for shifting itself, the shift starts as soon as you assume you are in your desired reality, and it ends as soon as the physical reality reflects what is in your mind. There is no method you need to do, no subliminals you have to listen to, no otherworldy states you need to induce.
When I want to shift on a day, I set the intention by assuming I am already there, in my mind I repeat affirmations that imply I am there. Another important thing that i use is assuming that once i have stated I am in my WR/DR, nothing can change that fact. It doesn't matter if I waver, it doesn't matter if I forget about my intention or react negatively to the 3d, it doesn't matter. The 3D HAS to change - that is law
There is this analogy that is popular about manifesting being like watching a movie that you already know the ending to. It doesn't matter what is going on right now - you know the ending (the fullfilment of your desire) so there is no need to worry. This is the same sort of mindset I have when I intent to shift.
When I go to sleep on days I have intended to shift I do either of 2 things :
⁺₊✧ -> Imagine myself waking up in my desired reality and embody my DR self
This includes the thoughts my DR self would be having and planning the day ect. This all involves fully "being" the person already. An important point however to note is that you are not doing anything to GET
⁺₊✧ -> Imagine random scenarios that have nothing to do with anything
This is the most common one I use tbh, everything is done so there is no need to do anything now, I just like to daydream about things that I want to daydream about.
The thing to note is you already know whats going to happen, you already know how things are going to end -> it is inevitable so it doesn't actually matter what you do, it doesn't change the result, which is you shifting.
This is the way I shift now
I hope this helped
I do not spend much time on tumblr however my asks are open, I just ask you be respectful
close your eyes and take a deep breath.
you are powerful. you have already shifted. you are a master shifter. shifting is easy for you. shifting is natural for you. you are where you want to be. you are your dr self. you are with your dr loved ones already. you have that life already.
believe in yourself and let go of the anxiety, the anger, the doubt that you are feeling. every time you get those thoughts, just remind yourself of how amazing you are. don’t mind the 3d because you know you are in your desired reality already.
happy shifting.
people will say not to put shifting on a pedestal and then five posts later talk about how how being a shifter makes you uniquely special compared to everyone else. can we make up our minds
Shifting has made me realize how much I really want to live. I actually want to do so much. I want to know worlds and instruments and languages and people and careers. I want to experience everything over and over and over again
And after all, it's really possible