Putting The DA In Daddy Issues

Please read “On This the 100th Anniversary of the Sinking of the Titanic, We Reconsider the Buoyancy of the Human Heart”… please read it… look it’s right here… it has the line “You’re not a boat, you can go under and come up again, with those big old lungs of yours, those hard kicking legs” in it… the first time I read it I burst into tears and sobbed like a child

I’m pretty sure the implicit message of “So if you want equality that means we can hit you now, right?” Has always just been “You are smaller and weaker than we are. We can violently destroy you at any time and most of us have wanted to, but we restrain ourselves because you’re weak and vulnerable and subservient. If you want to act like you aren’t weak and vulnerable and subservient, there will be nothing stopping me from acting on my constant desire to violently destroy you.”

you know what hits me about the "on purpose on purpose im going to love you on purpose" "i'll take care of you, it's rotten work, not to me not if it's you" "im going to love you without a single string attached" "i don't know where to put it all the love i have for her, i'll take it" "i walked in love with you with both eyes open choosing to take every step"?

they all have the same desire, they all desire for someone to Want it, for love to not be an accident or something that happens without recognising it, they all have the overtones desire of wanting someone to deem you worthy of love, to see you and meet you and know you and Want to love you, to make that choice and stick by it because loving you or being loved by you is something so deeply worth it and fulfilling and moving and powerful that they Want it, in their soul they crave to love and be loved

they're such varieties of the basic desire to be wanted

they say these things and they mean "love me because i am lovable" not "love me because you find me desirable/you have realised you already do/you want something from me" etc

it's "love me because i am me and you are aware of that" and it's something you can just scream to someone when you can't find another way to say "i am choosing to love you because loving you is something i want to experience no matter the outcome"

love them . On purpose, on Purpose and by choice and intentionally you will Love Them

the power of wearing a long ass coat. unmatchable

Academia is misplacing a stack of 64 flashcards and crying for three minutes only to realize your laptop was on them..

This is so empowering to see proving that despite how hard the churches and Canadian government tried. They failed to "kill the Indian in the child" and that we will continue to flourish in our beautiful culture ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽 and we will never give up

Reasons to Stop Hating Declan Lynch

- Knew that his parents preferred his other siblings, but decided to spend time he didn’t have to to protect those siblings instead of dropping them to get revenge on his parents

- Fought with a HIT MAN and not only lasted for a good long time, but got a lot of good punches in. 

- Ronan went to church cause he saw the devil, matthew went cause hes a perfect dream bro, Declan goes to church cause hes a good christiantm 

- has an underrated but kickass girlfriend, Ashley. 

- The fact that he acts ruthless, but obviously cares about his siblings gives him “Looks like they would kill you but is actually a cinnamon roll” status. 

- “Pretend you have earbuds in”

- Also an insomniac but no one ever mentions it

- Put up with Ronans shit even though he was like, 18 and totally didn’t have to. 

- Low key really cute? Look at him

Feel free to add more

art will save you, being unreasonably passionate about something niche will save you, letting past sources of joy show you the way back to yourself will save you, earnestness over composure will save you, the natural world will save you, caring for something bigger than yourself will save you, daring to be seen will save you, kindness not as a whim but a principle will save you, appreciation as a practice will save you, daring to try something new will save you, grounding will save you, love will save you, one good nights sleep will save you

Meme idea

Photoshop the goose from untitled goose game into the background of a photo of a place where something bad happens, but it’s a photo of before the bad thing happening, so it’s implied that the goose caused it

reblog and put in the tags your Tumblr History. How long have you been here? How many URLs have you gone through? Is this your OG blog? How many sides do you have? Etc…