“your Partner Isn’t Responsible For Your Wellbeing”

“your partner isn’t responsible for your wellbeing”

“go tell this to a therapist”

“omg stop traumadumping” (after hearing a mild complaint)

can you guys hear yourselves? we are human beings. part of being in relationships (including friendships) with each other means looking after each other. we are responsible for each other. I look after your emotional needs when you need it, and you look after mine. sometimes things will be difficult and sometimes they’ll be outside my paygrade, and I’m allowed to step back from that. but you have to stop acting like it’s some massive toxic imposition on you to have to listen to someone talk about their feelings

More Posts from Anylife-onmars and Others

7 months ago

Do you think that when they left Nicky asked Rio why mama wasn’t coming with them? And Rio responded that it wasn’t time yet and she’d join them when it was time?

And the reason that Rio has been chasing Agatha for so long (other than loving her of course) is because it’s been centuries now and Nicky keeps asking mami when it’s time for mama to come home?

1 year ago
My Entire Dashboard Right Now

My entire dashboard right now

1 year ago

For every person who likes or reblogs this post today, I will boop you.

You cannot stop me.

Only prolong your fate.

1 year ago

we’ve made autism into a small insignificant personality trait/identity like being queer and that’s actually so fucking wrong and insulting

40% of autistics have an intellectual disability

40-60% of autistics are nonverbal

most autistics will not be able to hold a job, go to college, or live on their own

autism rarely travels alone and has many medical comorbidities like epilepsy, mitochondrial disorders, and genetic disorders (which are the most common comorbidities - these aren’t rare complications.)

we can have discussions about autism and ableism and how society sees us without spreading misinformation.

autism is a lifelong, often debilitating neurodevelopmental and genetic disorder that affects how one communicates and interacts with the world. it is not “just being socially awkward” or “social anxiety.” it is a neurological disability. start treating it like one.

8 months ago
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)

(starts raising his hand before everyone else, just less confident about it than his classmates)

(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)

(remembers nearly all of the gibberish password that was told to him in a rush, only forgets the last two characters)

(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)

(replicates moves that he's only seen once (yes he also replicated RIPeter's move but I'm not screenshotting that bc it's long and complicated))

(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)

(figures out how to immobilize a guy that could escape any enclosure/trap)

(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)

(notices something is up/off with Gwen immediately, politely follows her lead and doesn't dig into it)

(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)

(continuation of above: realizes she's hiding something about her mission from him, decides to spy on her to figure out what)

(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)

(has information the Spider Society doesn't; figures out what the Spot is doing before any of them do)

(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)

(action plan made in 0.2 seconds)

(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)

(keeps up with what Miguel (a scientist from the future who has at least a year and a half of hands-on experience with the multiverse) is talking about)

(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)

(mentally calculates the timing of a giant spinning machine so that he can pass through safely and none of the Spiders can follow him)

(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)

(lmaooo you cannot do the same move twice on him, he learns too fast)

(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)

(this one speaks for itself. he really did have a plan)

(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)

(remembers how to use the Go Home Machine after seeing it be used once)

(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)
(starts Raising His Hand Before Everyone Else, Just Less Confident About It Than His Classmates)

(immediately figures out why he's in the wrong dimension)

in conclusion, please never say/imply that:

Miles is not on the same academic level as other Spider-nerds

Miles is less capable in fighting/combat than other Spider-people

Miles is not as good at strategy than other Spider-people

Miles is too naive/childish/optimistic to have practical intelligence or pick up on when something bad is going on under the surface

Miles's smaller amount of experience means he is generally less competent/capable than other Spider-people

EVER again ok thank you!!!!

1 year ago

A white USAmerican settler named Gaia Thomas has stolen over 20k from Palestinians after posing as someone who wants to help them raise money so they can move for their survival.

ALT text available

Mai Rajab from @Mai_Gazan tweets:
It was my dream !!
She broke my heart and soul 
I can’t imagine why ??? Just why ?? 
She sent me this before she closed all her accounts! 😔
6:48 AM, 04 March 24
Cropped screenshot of a text message sent to Mai says:
I am not responsible for your travel. I wish you the best of luck.
@Mai_Gazan tweets:
"I want to explain to you.

She told me that she wanted to transfer money from her personal account, so I sent her a safe way so as not to be at risk by sending the amount. She transferred the amount through the commercial bank account and sent me a picture of the transfer, but in a few moments later she deleted it and said that this is a fraud.

She didn't send me any money and I don't have any money, she's lying and everyone who defends her is a liar too!

After that, I contacted her through Messenger and told her to transfer my money to me through Western, but she closed all her accounts and closed my donation link without any clarification!"

Mai's tweet is accompanied by a screenshot of a text message conversation that is transcribed in the next photo.

1:57 PM, 04 March 24
A screenshot of a text message conversation. The contact name is saved as Gaia Thomas.

Friday

Mai: My nose is bleeding.

I think it's from fear.

sent 12:10 AM

(Forwarded meaning this is Gaia texting) My bank will not put the money through. They said it's a scam. There's nothing I can do. It's not my fault.

Mai: Really? 🥺

sent 3:39 AM

Mai: Nooo😭😭😭 I really need to escape 😭 

sent 3:40 AM

Mai: Please help😔

sent 3:40 AM

Mai: The delay is not in our favor. Registration for travel will stop. What can we do?

sent 3:48 AM

Gaia: I am not responsible for your travel. I wish you the best of luck.

sent 8:20 AM

Mai: What happened?

sent 1:06 PM
Mai Rajab @Mai_Gazan tweets as a reply to her own tweet:

Damn you Gaia ! I was trusting you !! 
Fuck everyone who exploited us we just want to survive that’s not our fault

1:59 PM, 04 March 24
Mai Rajab @Mai_Gazan tweets:

"When she deleted the photo of the transfer receipt! I'm not a liar. I have all the documents that show that I didn't take any money."

This tweet is accompanied by a screenshot of a text message conversation that will be transcribed in the next photo.

3:40 PM, 04 March 24
A screenshot of a text message conversation.

11:37

Contact name is Gaia Thomas

Mai: I want a picture of the reciept of the money until it is reviewed with Hossam.

sent 9:27 PM

Mai: (replying to her own previous message about the reciept) That's what I want important for us

sent 9:47 PM

Gaia: (old message from Gaia that Gaia herself is replying to) 🚫 This message was deleted

sent 9:46 PM

Photo of a wall shrubbery with vines hanging down, dotted with purple flowers. It says "9:48 PM" in white font on the bottom right corner of the photo.

Gaia:  I sent it.

sent 9:48 PM
A screenshot of Gaia Thomas' Linkedn profile.

The profile picture shows a pale white woman smiling at the camera. She has brown hair piled up on her head. She blotchy red cheeks and a red chin.

Gaia Thomas
Writer
Self-employed • Zoeglossia

Oakland, California, United States • Contact Info

157 followers • 156 connections

Join to view profile | Message

About
Specialties:
Capacity building, public and community outreach, coalition building, board staffing and facilitation, conversational leadership, collective visioning, volunteer coordination, grant writing, fund

This is the white woman Gaia Thomas.

1 year ago

in the strike for palestine, please talk about it. please do not stay silent. even if you have zero followers, zero interaction, talk about palestine. reblog, like, comment, boost anything you can calling for ceasefire. do not buy anything that isn't a necessity.

you can email or fax your representatives and senators for free calling for ceasefire. keep doing your daily clicks, donate if you can, and do not keep quiet

In The Strike For Palestine, Please Talk About It. Please Do Not Stay Silent. Even If You Have Zero Followers,
In The Strike For Palestine, Please Talk About It. Please Do Not Stay Silent. Even If You Have Zero Followers,
In The Strike For Palestine, Please Talk About It. Please Do Not Stay Silent. Even If You Have Zero Followers,

IMPORTANT RESOURCES

In The Strike For Palestine, Please Talk About It. Please Do Not Stay Silent. Even If You Have Zero Followers,

how you can help palestine

daily click to donate

resources on palestine-israel history

what to boycott

what to boycott pt. 2

more resources

call for ceasefire

sudanese-led causes to donate to

esims for gaza

(US) email your representatives

(US) call your representatives

ceasefire action toolkit

In The Strike For Palestine, Please Talk About It. Please Do Not Stay Silent. Even If You Have Zero Followers,
1 year ago

So I found Aaron Bushnell's reddit and went through his comments/posts. That young man was well read and stable as they can be. Nothing in his writings pointed to someone who was "unstable" or "brainwashed".

He held leftist and anarchist ideals. He belong to the ACAB subreddit. He recognized the evil of the US Military even though he himself was a part of it. He hated TERFS and called out fatphobia. He understood the dangers of white supremecy and the evils of capitalism.

He had a cat. He liked the show fleabag and played elden ring.

Apparently in his will he wants to leave any money in his name to palestinian relief funds. He was trying to find a new owner for his cat.

Rest in peace Aaron Bushnell. The world won't forget & we sure as fuck won't let the media paint you out to be some crazy conspiracy theorist who had no idea what he was doing.

So I Found Aaron Bushnell's Reddit And Went Through His Comments/posts. That Young Man Was Well Read
11 months ago

This is my child who emerged from the midst of rubble and destruction and I pray to God to protect him for me. Please, my friends, support me, and do not forget us by participating and donating to us.

This Is My Child Who Emerged From The Midst Of Rubble And Destruction And I Pray To God To Protect Him

Donate to Help my family to be in safe place, organized by Ahmed Al-habil
gofundme.com
I am physiotherapist Ahmed Al-Habil from Gaza I have been displaced from my home si… Ahmed Al-habil needs your support for Help my family t
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