Facts, So Sexy

What do you think of someone who doesn't support your pronouns or the holida you wanna celebrate but you don't want to unfollow them but you're trans and probably offended?

...We're not going to like each other, I can already tell. Ha.

That part

I'm a trash hoe saving your pics

Jesus Christ you hot af mk?

bye

😶

Do you have a gf? Asking for a friend, haha ~cafemòchaaa

First of all, love the aesthetic gif & your blog, I'm a huge coffee/cafe enthusiast so I just followed you. ☕ 😍

Secondly, yes I do, she actually has a tumblr, she's @proseformylove (if you wanna follow 😉).

I used a app that changes your face and when I used your face it changed my face to a girl. The app thinks you're a woman and put lipstick on my face because your lips are really pink it had me laughing so fucking hard. This is proof you're a pretty ass sexy delicious but feminine man. That's all I had to say love u bye sugar 😂😂😂😂😂😂

That-....

Well maybe your app is just crappy and it confuses features and gender often, more than you think. ....S'not my fault you got a two star crappy app. 😒

Yea send this butthurt hoe some love and some friends, she need it. And need to mind her business while she at it cuz no one was debating her goofy attention-seeking-and-stating-the obvious on-a-post-ass. It's always one of you niggas in a fandom starting drama over dumb shit that wasn't about you and you it, congrats 🤡🤡

aaaah i’m sorry about the negativity. me and willy are sending you those good good vibes <3

Eh, nothing to apologize for. Discourse is always a losing battle. I should've known better than to hit y'all with my controversial take of "calling someone you've never met 'stupid' is rude", the world just wasn't ready yet 😂😂 people who get smart with me in replies catch a block immediately, that's how it's always been because it saves everyone a whole lot of time and trouble.

Good vibes received!!! 🥺🥺🥺 I hope you and the rest of the Wonka Gang know how much y'all mean to me ❤

Reblog to help others

Hello. My name is Nica. I want to stay anon until I get comfortable and I‘m not good with new people. But my question is, how do you advise someone to deal with their depression? Do you know any remedies that help with chronic sadness? Or panic attacks? My life isn‘t where I want it to be atm, dealing with a lot of stuff and I don‘t have any friends to talk to or get help from. Sorry if I‘m bothering you in the morning I just saw that you‘re leaving tumblr and it triggered an attack and I feel like crying. You were the one blog I liked and how you helped people and now I don‘t have anybody :/

Omg. No, no, no, you're not bothering me at all, & you're not just going to wake up one day & my account is going to be deactivated. I'll tell you all when I'm leaving & chances are I still won't deactivate, just cause. I'm so, so sorry, I didn't mean to trigger you. It was just an idea I had. I used to have really bad panic attacks to a point were my muscles would hurt for days, I had to be taken in an ambulance & put on meds cause I had them daily for like a month. I wouldn't eat, I was constantly snapping on people & irritated. I turned into someone who isn't me. My family noticed the change & pointed it out & I snapped on them for that. It was that bad. And this was recent, this wasn't like 5 years ago, all this happened LAST year. So I know from experience how difficult & painful what you're going through right now can be.

Even though I still have anxiety sometimes, I learned how to stop the attacks from happening, I don't have them anymore. But before then my doctor wanted to put me in a psych ward, (yeah, he literally recommended that) & I took Xanax (& Zoloft for two days) for a while, then it stopped helping, so he wanted to increase my dose. And I didn't want to become an addict or dependent on meds (I personally don't believe in taking meds for mental illnesses), so one day I just decided "fuck it, I'm not taking anything anymore" & I realized in that moment that the decision I made scared me a fucking lot cause I wasn't going to have anything to run to, but ultimately it was going to help me. I had to hurt & pray A LOT before I got better. While I was going through it I felt so hopeless & lost & I started questioning my faith in God cause I didn't feel like anything was changing, I felt worse tbh. I remember one night I just completely gave up & I drove to my mom's house in the middle of the night cause I didn't know what else to do. We went for a walk & talked until the sun came up. I never call my parents when I'm going through something terrible, I always try to resolve my problems on my own, so if I call them it's serious. But with time I got better. And I'm happier. So I'm living proof that you CAN overcome your biggest demons. My advice to you would be to start slow, you won't get better overnight. It's going to take time & it's going to hurt - I won't lie to you, but you WILL prevail in the end. But for now, distract yourself, get on your phone & find a funny video. Give yourself time to breathe & realize you're safe. That feeling will pass & you'll be okay again. & if you ever need someone to talk to to help you calm down, come hop in my dm's & we can hang out until you feel better. You don't have to be alone. & you definitely don't have to suffer alone. I often get people who ask me for advice in handling depression, that's partially the reason I haven't left Tumblr. I wouldn't want to abandon anybody. I'm so sorry you're going through this, honey. I hope things get better for you. Literally if you need me to just stay here for you just to help you, I will. & if you need any more resources in dealing with anxiety/depression, dm me. I'm so sorry for triggering you. I'll choose my words more carefully next time. Bless your heart, I'll pray for you.

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Organizations:

National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH); 866-615-6464

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI); 800-950-NAMI (800-950-6264)

Anxiety and Depression Association of America (ADAA); 240-485-1001

American Psychiatric Association; 800-357-7924

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Division of Mental Health (CDC); 800-CDC-INFO (800-232-4636)

American Psychological Association; 800-374-2721

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Coping, Advocacy, and Support:

Anxiety and Depression Association of America: Support Groups

The Anxiety Network: Help and Support

Anxiety Central: Forums

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Medications for Anxiety Disorders (talk to your doctor first):

Cymbalta (duloxetine)

Celexa (citalopram)

Zoloft (sertraline)

Anafranil (clomipramine)

Prozac (fluoxetine)

Paxil (paroxetine)

Xanax (alprazolam)

Klonopin (clonazepam)

BuSpar (buspirone)

Valium (diazepam)

Ativan (lorazepam)

Lexapro (escitalopram)

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Links:

https://www.counseling.org/knowledge-center/mental-health-resources/anxiety

https://adaa.org/understanding-anxiety/generalized-anxiety-disorder-gad/resources

https://blog.thetransitionhouse.org/anxiety-help-and-resources-1

https://www.rtor.org/anxiety/

https://www.nami.org/About-Mental-Illness/Mental-Health-Conditions/Anxiety-Disorders

I H o p e Y o u ' r e O k a y

Sleepy baby 🍃💕

You are loved~ ✨

You so damn fine to me, lord have mercy

Please Mrs. Beauregard, you're married!

REDBROOK UNIVERSITY: MELODRAMA

(SNEAK PEEK) 📖

This is a sneak preview for my new novel called Redbrook University: Melodrama. I will continue with posting sneak peeks and previews before I post the official character list and biographies, and chapters that I'm still working on. The plot of this series focuses on a group of newly admitted college students who gradually learn of a deep and dark secret that their entire college campus is keeping from them. As they work to withdraw from the college, run away and solve the disappearance mystery of a girl who attempted to run away from Redbrook, peers, professors and even their closest friends turn on them. Is anyone really anyone's friend? You'll have to read to find out!

Disclaimer: Book will have songs inserted, trigger warnings, and theme changes

Aesthetics And Extras/Campus:

"Welcome to Redbrook University, where failure isn't an option, and success is required. The only university you'd break your neck to get through the doors. Where only the smartest students get in, and well, nobody ever gets out".

Setting: Ithaca, NY (Redbrook) | Autumn

Series Official Theme Song:

Part 2. Coming Soon

"Things Get Dark Around Here Quick"

~ Unknown