Not To Be Dramatic But I Would Die For This Cat

i need an aromantic character in media who loves romance for everyone EXCEPT themselves and confuses everyone with their logic

like this-

aro: awww those two are so cute together! seriously their relationship is just UGH. the CUTEST EVER. they are just MEANT for each other. i just love their relationship and chemistry and everything!

allo: so, you want a partner?

aro: OH MY GOD NO WTF. WHY WOULD YOU SAY THAT? look, romance is just completely illogical and toxic. i could get everything in a relationship with a friend. i WANT to be alone. no romance. its weird and gross and stu- OH MY GOD CAN YOU TWO JUST KISS ALREADY. seriously those two are so obvious, and they would be so cute together, right?!

allo: w h a t

dick and tim teasing damian my beloved

ehehe

Reblog to put one of these in your mutuals’ pocket when they’re not looking

Btw, on valentines day im holding everyone under the arospec and acespecs hands and we’re all gonna sit in the circle and infodump while drinking hot cocoa and eating chicken noodle soup

being aromantic is so funny because i feel like a video game character, who had 400 side quests just to get to the end of the game. like i could’ve just gone straight to aromantic, but no, i had to collect all of the other badges first.

bisexual? check.

lesbian? check.

pan? check.

demiromantic? check.

greyromantic? check

mistaking wanting to be someones friend for a crush? check x2.

demigirl, genderfluid, and gender apathetic because i thought i might just have gender envy? check, check, and check.

being cupioromantic because i thought i wanted a realtionship before i realized yeah no, thats kinda gross, ew? check.

(no hate to my cupioromantics! yall are awesome, just not for me🩷)

i have gone through EVERYTHING, only to realize, that the attraction? YEAH NO ITS JUST NOT THERE. IT TOOK ME SO LONG TO REALIZE THIS? LIKE, NO, YOU ARENT EQUALLY ATTRACTED TO ALL GENDERS, BECAUSE THERES NO ATTRACTION TO BEGIN WITH!!

anyways, thanks for listening to my rant :]

The Khaos Realm

The Aro-Spec Guide to Being an Ally on Alloromantic Awareness Day!

We all know that the week commencing on the 17th-23rd is Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week (ASAW) 2019. It’s a glorious week dedicated to pr

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a photo collection of bobby’s various shakespearean roles + a video of him talking about acting in them!

(ok ok, i promise this is the final post for shakespeare’s birthday! just had to celebrate since we’re fans of the world’s biggest bard geek.)

Quick reminder that you don't need a solid sexuality! You can just be in love! Or not be in love! Or have a gender! Labels are a choice, not a requirement. All you need to do is be someone you like being! If labels help with that, great! But they are not required. You don't owe it to anyone, so don't feel pressured to choose labels if they aren't your thing!

THIS IS AMAZING WHAT??

The way Damian Wayne loves is complex, intense, and shaped by his upbringing with the League of Assassins and then his life with the Batfamily.

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✦His Emotional Foundations in Love.

1. Conditional Love at the Beginning.

– Raised by Talia and Ra's al Ghul, Damian learned that affection had to be earned through excellence.

2. Difficulty Expressing Affection.

– He didn't grow up with normal displays of love, so he has a hard time expressing his feelings in a conventional way.

3. Absolute Loyalty.

– When he loves, it is unwavering; he would not betray or doubt the person.

4. Love as Protection.

– His way of loving translates into protecting, even in an overprotective way.

5. Fear of Loss.

– He has lost important figures (like his father in certain stories), which makes him fear losing those he loves.

6. Requires Emotional Security.

– If he feels his love is unrequited or there are doubts, his pride can cause him to walk away.

7. Dominant, but Not Possessive.

– Although he is intense, he does not see the person he loves as a possession, but as someone to grow with.

8. Internal Struggle between His Past and His Heart.

– His upbringing as an assassin clashes with his desire to love genuinely.

9. Silent Love.

– He prefers to demonstrate with actions rather than words.

10. Needs Proof of Loyalty.

– Not because of mistrust, but because for him, love must be unbreakable.

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✦How He Acts in a Relationship.

11. Attention to Detail.

– He notices the little things that make his partner happy and uses them to show his affection.

12. Self-Sacrifice.

– He is willing to risk his life for the person he loves without a second thought.

13. Respect for Individuality.

– He can be overprotective, but he won't try to change the other person.

14. Difficulty Saying "I Love You".

– He prefers to show it with gestures rather than saying it directly.

15. Quiet Gestures of Affection.

– Such as leaving notes, bringing food without being asked, making sure the other person is comfortable.

16. Not Open with His Pain.

– He prefers to solve his problems alone, even if they affect him emotionally.

17. Expressiveness in His Look.

– His eyes reflect what he doesn't say in words.

18. Competitive in Love.

– If someone else is interested in his partner, he will see it as a challenge and will not allow himself to be outdone.

19. Silent Jealousy.

– He doesn't make scenes, but he will find a way to show that he is the only one who matters.

20. Personal Space, But Constant Presence.

– He is not clingy, but he is always around when he is needed.

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✦ His Difficulties in Love.

21. Issues with Vulnerability.

– Showing emotions makes him feel exposed and weak.

22. Fear of Not Being Enough.

– Sometimes he doubts whether he deserves to be loved because of his past.

23. Conflict with Anger.

– If something threatens his relationship, his first instinct is aggression.

24. Lack of Tact.

– He may say harsh things without realizing the emotional impact.

25. Overly Independent.

– Doesn't always ask for help, even if they need it.

26. Impatience in Love.

– Waiting for the other person to understand is difficult for them.

27. Obsession with Perfection.

– Demands a lot from themselves in the relationship, which can be exhausting.

28. Trouble Expressing Pain.

– Would rather focus on protecting than admitting that something hurts.

29. Rigid Love.

– Has a hard time adjusting to emotional changes in the relationship.

30. Extreme Loyalty, But Demanding.

– Expects the same level of commitment as they give.

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✧Their Unique Way of Loving.

31. Silent, But Intense.

– Doesn't need to talk too much for their love to be felt.

32. Affection in the Form of Care.

– Makes sure his partner is well fed, rested, and protected.

33. Will Give Meaningful Gifts.

– Small things but with great sentimental value.

34. Prefers Intimate Moments Over Public.

– He is not one for big public displays of affection.

35. Memorizes His Partner’s Likes and Dislikes.

– He will remember even the smallest detail.

36. Meaningful Looks.

– Can say a lot with just a look.

37. Listens More Than He Talks.

– Knows when to keep quiet and let his partner express themselves.

38. Can Be Cold at First.

– Not because he doesn’t love, but because he is used to protecting himself.

39. Accepts Vulnerability Over Time.

– It’s not immediate, but he learns to trust.

40. Unbreakable Love.

– If he loves, he loves forever.

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✦Damian Wayne in a Long-Term Relationship.

41. Builds a Solid Future.

– He doesn’t go into a relationship without thinking about the future.

42. Never Forgets a Promise.

– If he says he’ll be there, he’ll keep it.

43. Becomes More Relaxed Over Time.

– His love becomes more natural with trust.

44. Leans on His Partner.

– He eventually learns to trust them to share his problems.

45. Protective to the Last Breath.

– His priority will be the safety of his partner.

46. Allows His Partner to Love Him in Their Own Way.

– He accepts affection the way the other person gives it.

47. Romantic in His Own Way.

– He’s not one for flowers and dinners, but he does meaningful things.

48. Love as an Unbreakable Bond.

– Even if there are problems, he will never stop loving.

49. He Doesn't Give Up Easily.

– If there are difficulties, he will fight for the relationship.

50. Love is his Weakness, but also his Strength.

– Loving makes him vulnerable, but it also makes him stronger.