I Do Feel Like This Whole Self Improvement Culture Thing Can Go Too Far Where People Are Never Happy
I do feel like this whole self improvement culture thing can go too far where people are never happy with who they are and where they are because they’re constantly trying to be better or do better and they’re always waiting for some sort of glow up or achievement or therapy realisation that will make them feel complete but that isn’t real and life is actually in the every day.
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أعلم أن الحنين مرض ،
وأعلم أن لكل مرض وقت للتعافي
وأعلم أن بعد التعافي شفاء،
ولكنك حبيبي ،
لم يذكر العالم حتى الآن كيف يتعافى المحب من حبيبه؟!
أو الأصدق !
ما هو الدواء لداء الحنين اللعين!! ،
ليتك كما علمتني الحب وزرعت فيّ داء الحنين ،
ليتك علمتني كيف أنسى ملامحك ولا أشتاق مرة واحدة لهمسك أو لطيفك أو يأتي الليل يذكرني عِنادًا ومرارًا وتكرارًا بصوتك وصورتك بتفاصيلك التي حُفرت بمخالب الزمن في ذاكرتي ؟!
كل الأطباء سألوني ماذا بكِ؟
أخبرتهم بتنهيدة الزمن : ”إني أُحب“
تركوا القلم وقالوا :
”الحل بمعجزة تأتي إليك من معجزات الزمن “.
Life has a way of moving forward, whether we are ready for it or not. It doesn’t pause when we're struggling, waiting for us to feel strong or whole again. The challenges, the setbacks, the heartaches—they all keep coming, relentless and uninvited. And while it’s natural to feel overwhelmed in those moments, the reality is that life doesn’t wait for us to be okay. The world continues, and if we want to keep moving with it, we have to find the strength to stand up, even when our knees feel weak, and keep moving forward, one step at a time.
When everything feels heavy, sometimes the best thing you can do is pause for a moment, breathe, and then take action. Pray, reflect, and recharge—whatever you need to ground yourself—but don’t let that be the place you stay. The journey ahead may not be easy, but staying stagnant will only prolong the discomfort. Push forward, even in the uncertainty. Life will never be on pause, so you must continue, grow stronger, and embrace the process. It’s through these moments of resilience that we learn the true power of persistence and the beauty of our own strength.
Forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn’t know before you learned it.
You deserve a healthy love with someone who sees you, hears you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, and loves you.
Someone who is consistent, communicates clearly, and creates a calm safe space to heal, grow and bloom together.
A love you never have to heal from.
#Abdullah
What happens when you don’t find that right person? Do you just spend the rest of your life in a relationship where the conversation isn’t great, everything isn’t perfect, but it’s nice and sweet?
Some changes happen deep down Inside of you. And the truth is only you know about them.
"I crave and desire you."
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Because without looking for you, I find you everywhere, especially when I close my eyes.
- #Abdullah #AbdullahBook #KittyCat
A story doesn't exist unless it's Told.
"She thought about it the other night. How you pushed her boundaries and tested her senses. She thought of how she got lost in you. And you in her. She thought about how often you called her 'beautiful' in between breaths, whimpers, and moans. She thought about how you made her body rise and fall like Roman ruins.
She thought about how you come up behind her, gently move her long hair over to the other side so you can kiss her neck. And she laughs to herself remembering she told you 'you can't kiss a girl's neck and not expect the sequence of events to start', jokingly. It makes you grin as you're kissing her.
She thought about how all her sadness, pain, and anxiety disappears when she's with you. And only with you. You awaken another side of what not many have seen, and only a few dabbed into. But with you, oh with you, she gives all of her. And you cherish that.
She thought about how you know her body more than anyone else. She thought about how she feels so complete when she's with you, and feels like something is missing when she's not. Then she thought about what you have planned for her next time, and she grins just imagining what you may come up with".
If one day I stop communicating with you, don't worry, I don't hate you, maybe I got tired of catching your attention.
Literally asked for the bare minimum, and you made me feel like I was asking for too much.
I noticed, but I didn't say a thing, because I always try to understand even if it will hurt me.
Sorry. Im done.
‿ℒℴνℯ⁀💕 Abdullah
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"Perhaps, somewhere, someday, at a less miserable time, we may see each other again" - Abdullah.
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