Monday Morning
I’m okay
I love you
Thank you
It’s alright
I’m not hurt
I’m not hurt too badly
You’re lovely/wonderful/kind
I enjoyed it
It was worth it
Take your time
Do you need anything?
Do you want a cuddle?
Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?
Do you want to talk about it?
I’m here
You’re not a bad person
Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.
Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.
Maybe one of these days....
The toy for tonight.
"on ur knees" "good girl" "look at me" "use ur words" "say it louder" "dont make me ask again" "beg for it" "say please" "thats my pretty girl" "just like that" "come here" "you're mine" "show me ur tongue" "dont move" "im proud of u"
come into bed and listen to the rain with me
formerly Tigerlily116 47yo bi married woman. No one under 18 allowed. Hotwife,Cuckquean, sapiosexual, ENM, kinky bi switch. *my pics are under #just me
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