Some Britney Spears Blinkies Pls...

A lot of pop psychology gets thrown around and since I already have a headache, here's preventing you lot from making it worse.

Love-bombing: A manipulation tactic of increasing affection and grand gestures before or after doing something abusive, specifically to weasel one's way out of consequences.

What it is not: A streak of affection and generosity towards friends/loved ones.

Trauma-bonding: Knowingly traumatizing someone to take advantage of their vulnerable state, to then act like the "hero" or the one who cheers them up.

What it is not: Bonding over similar traumas.

Gaslighting: *Knowingly* convincing someone they cannot trust their own perception of a situation in pursuit of one's own narrative.

What it is not: Misaligned perception of events.

Narcissist: Someone afflicted with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, a traumagenic cluster B disorder, that struggles with self-obsession, paranoia, craving validity from the public, delusions of grandeur, and social disconnection.

It is not: Your rubbish ex that cheated on you.

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

-Xanthe

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"what's ur snap" shut up ask for my number you fucking loser

what i’m on currently

ive been wanting to make a zine lately, id call it gay porn magazine and itd feature mostly art, lit, poems, and photography from me and my queer friends

its been a minute since ive done a big creative project but zines feel so acessible and its something that i can create and look at and can tangibly express how i feel and think about the fucking state of the world right now

as well as being a celebration of queer history and our future!

anyways this is my first little pratice one

me on the puter

I wish we lived near each other so we could go to raves together and help each other

omg thats too real

i wanna party with all my internet friendsss

HE PAINTED HIMSELF ORANGE LIKE TRUMP OMGGG

something interesting is happening

Its Britney Bitch

last of my baggie 🥲 i still have however much is left in my keychain stash thingy but finishing the bag always makes me sadd